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  • June 24, 2017 at 6:35 pm in reply to: Interacting with my BF's adult children #154850
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    Update…

    Inky….you hit the nail on the head…I was told the adult wants nothing to do with me ever. Was told they are taking councilling…which I never knew there were any major issues..was told by the father that if his child ever hurts themself, it will be all my fault….as I was the icing on the cake.

    Think they never liked me from the beginning, so perfect time to hate me and make me look like a terrible person..for only trying to help. It’s very hurtful for the comment about if they hurt themself it will be all my fault.  I’ve left this relationship, ..I can’t do this any more. For as much as one wants to be in a relationship…I cant be in one that doesn’t give me any good reason to be in one.

    Thanks for all the input…was very helpful to hear strangers think I didn’t do something that really wasn’t so bad.

    June 22, 2017 at 1:39 pm in reply to: Graduation dilemma #154578
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    Rennie

    I do agree with the approach to say I think it would be nice for our daughter to receive 2 gifts. I’d say I already bought mine, but if you would like some ideas to get her, I would gladly give you a list of ideas our daughter would like. (And in no way would I let him give you halfers for your gift….graduation is such an important milestone…and besides if he goes out to buy her his own gift….it would have more meaning to your daughter that her dad for the first time went out and bought a gift.)

    June 19, 2017 at 6:30 pm in reply to: Things have changed #154070
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    Thomas

    I think you’ve been given some great advice. I will only add that when one makes excuses for someone else’s behaviour…deep down you know the answer.

    June 19, 2017 at 5:49 pm in reply to: Interacting with my BF's adult children #154064
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    Eliana

    Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. Yes I do agree he does not respect me. Years ago I use to let him push me around (verbally not physically), and I use to just suck it up, but lately I just started to have had enough.  One can only take so much before you want to walk. I’m glad to know that you thought I didn’t overstep with his kids.

    Thank you

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