Thanks everyone. As soon as i wrote this, i felt like an idiot, anyway. I got annoyed with my ex because i felt like he swooped in and used me because he’s not happy with his current situation. My marriage has hit its first low point

this year, and because i wasn’t feeling emotionally supprted or connected, i allowed him to get into my head. I have stopped talking to him and have no desire to anymore. I definitely think we were stuck in the “fantasy” of where we were 10 years ago, but things have changed. I want to keep my family together, so my husband and I will need to figure out and do whatever it takes to make it work.