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  • August 2, 2021 at 2:19 am in reply to: HELP. IM IN DILEMMA #383925
    Minnivei
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    Hello anita

    Yes it is not easy of course. But i’ll try

    Thank you Anita for your response.

    I’m happy to have you to discuss abt my dilemma

    🙂

     

    April 25, 2018 at 8:39 am in reply to: HOW TO STOP FEELING GUILTY? #204055
    Minnivei
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    Dear Mark,

    thank you so much. :)))) I appreciate it

    April 25, 2018 at 8:38 am in reply to: HOW TO STOP FEELING GUILTY? #204053
    Minnivei
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    Dear Anita,

    it is impossible, my sist wont agree with me.

    My relationship with her is fine. Im more opened to her right now, and she really understands my condition. Her warm words made me feeling less guilty and now i feel better nit.

    Umm so, i have two sisters. We decided to pay for the house monthly expenses together by dividing it equally. My second sister and I back then decided to join and put all the money into my mom bank account and the money will be used for paying all the family’s needs (until now it is still like this). But my oldest sister refused to join.

    It is quite complicated right now. I want to be independet and do not want to help or to intervene with this business anymore, but on the other hand i also know my monthly salary from company wont be enough even to pay my own part. T__T

    April 23, 2018 at 1:39 am in reply to: HOW TO STOP FEELING GUILTY? #203689
    Minnivei
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    Hi Anita,

    that’s right. I do have a feeling that these problems are somehow connecting to each other. No matter just how good this guy is, how well he treated me, i just still cant accept him, i can’t love him.

    What i know is because i dont even love myself right now. I keep blaming myself. I cant love him, and right now i keep blaming myself because i feel bad for him.

    I have this business & i blame myself too.

    About your suggestion, i think it’s very impossible to do that. Is there any better suggestion? :((

    Right now i think i will start being independent first with my own monthly salary. I think of trying to pay my own part with my own salary. Even tho my salary wont be enough to pay the house installment, but i will try. :””””

    April 22, 2018 at 10:21 am in reply to: WHY CANT I LOVE SOMEONE? #203587
    Minnivei
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    Dear Anita,

    For me, dating means getting know each other, helping your significant other when he has a problem, a place to tell your life story, always be there for each other through the thick and thin(?)

    Thank you Anita.

     

    April 19, 2018 at 10:52 pm in reply to: WHY CANT I LOVE SOMEONE? #203285
    Minnivei
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    Dear Anita,

    Umm.. As a child? It’s really hard for me to explain. When i was young, my parents were busy looking for money because back then my family was quite poor, so I never had deep discussions with my parents. Maybe the love that i received when i was kid mostly in the form of act from my parents. Like back then, my father always drove me to school, my mom always prepared a lunchbox for me. That’s all

    April 16, 2018 at 2:00 am in reply to: WHY CANT I LOVE SOMEONE? #202593
    Minnivei
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes I expected to get the exact same feeling. My bad:( My love life before the age of 18? Umm. i just had a crush with a senior in high school and that’s all, nothing more.

     

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    Dear Mark,

    Yes that’s true, i dont have any experience in dating.

    Umm, my bestfriends are only girls…  Ok, i’ll try that, thanks Mark!!

     

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