I read what you said. You’re absolutely right Anita. I asked him why and he never answered. This is a very dangerous and cowardly. My friend has decided to escalate the manner with his job. Nobody should be able to do this to innocent people, and have the audacity to be belligerent and threatening to others.

I’m going to take the time to look at my core and work to begin trusting my intuition as a woman. Your words have been very empowering to me

I’m making that something I’m aware of in the future and start adjusting how snappy or impulsive when someone else upsets me! Thank you so much Anita

I think most times he’s a good listener. I’ve seen him upset before and he still was, but last weekend and on Tuesday showed me he can be impatient with me. I think you had a point.

Hi Anita,

My mom actually invited him over for NYE. I let him know. On NYE day she was sloppy drinking very early and so me and my brother decided to change plans. I decided I would go with my brother to his girlfriends family house. I mentioned this to my beau, and he got upset thinking I was avoiding the idea of him meeting my mom which I wasn’t. I didn’t want her to be belligerent around him for his first time meeting her, so I offered the alternative of him coming w me to my brothers gf house and he got upset. Following that conversation, he got mad that I didn’t come pick him up from work. I too was snappy with him about him bringing it up. I believe this catalyzed the whole issue.

update: we spoke today. I asked is it was a good time to talk? No pressure. He asked what was up and I said I was wondering that, then he asked me to leave him alone. I said I only asked because in prior conversation he said he would speak to me later but we didn’t, so I wasn’t sure if we were speaking or if I needed to get my things. He said he would pack my things for me, and he did