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August 7, 2013 at 9:35 am #39913
Fantastic! Thank you very much Matt. I watched the video and I think this may be very helpful. I also found that he and his monastery have resources available on iTunes as podcasts.
Thank you again! You’re a true asset to this community. <3
-AmyAugust 4, 2013 at 7:17 pm #39745
It sounds as though you know exactly what I’m going through. And with children in the mix, it makes it even harder. It’s just so confusing at times and you want to do the right thing but there are no clear paths labeled. And while E is right, you know that, it’s never that easy.
Hang in there hon.
The best thing we can do is to nurture ourselves. Regardless of the future, we’re no use to anyone if we allow ourselves to be broken.
I hope that you’re eventually able to let go.
-AmyAugust 4, 2013 at 7:07 pm #39744
Thank you Matt for you kind words and wisdom. After taking some time to meditate on the ideas you’ve presented, I know you’re correct. Everything takes on a more hopeful glo.
And on the good days, like today, while i still feel the pain, I’m excited to see what the universe has in store. With great pain comes transformation.
I’ve never been on my own before, always someone’s companion. I’m truly excited to be blessed with opportunity to get to know myself. It’s such a luxury that few in this harsh world are actually afforded.
I just need to let go and trust that universe has a plan.
Thank you for reminding me.
I appreciate your kindness.
NamasteAugust 2, 2013 at 2:49 pm #39642
Hi Kim, it sounds like you’ve been thru the ringer. (hugs)
I can relate so much with your story. My soon to be ex husband acts the same way. Warm and affectionate one day and cold the next, like I married two people and only one of them can stand to have me around. Ever see the movie The Illusionist?
I don’t have any advice. I wish I did so I could follow it too.
Mostly, I just needed to let you know that you are not alone.
I feel your pain.
Hang in there. Take the time to grieve.
Embrace the grief for a while but don’t linger there too long.
It’s just pain and ash.