I know how you feel , I cheated on an ex and never told him , eventually I did the right thing and broke it off but when I think about it I still feel bad. I think everyone has a path and lessons to learn, so just see this as a stepping stone to be a better person. Forgive yourself.
I agree with the above post, talking it out will help a lot, even if its telling him what annoys tou.Just let him know how you really feel. Otherwise you will build resentment tword him and that is often the path to a relationship ending. Good luck, I hope everything works out for the best.So sorry you feel bad.
Such kind words , I will check out that link, thank you so much. It feels amazing to know I’m not alone.I thought the quote from Chogyam Trumpa was so meaningful and I thank you for sharing.
I’m really hard on myself , I need to treat me better, at least I realize now that no one can really make me happy but me. I also know that when children (me) don’t get the love they so desperately need they seek it out as an adult often in the wrong places.
I need to forgive my parents and move on. Its hard though, but not as hard as it use to be, So I suppose that means I am healing. Thank you again for the kind words.
Maybe just accepting him for who he is and finding out why you are so frustrated. The worst tou can do os take out your bad feeling out on your partner. Its not their responsibility to make you happy its yours. And iwho really is annoys you so much maybe hes not a good match for you. Hope this helps.
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