Thank you Anita and Pearce!

when I said ” she might be ok” I mean she is not overreacting at everything . for example, if I told her that I would be busy and I can’t welcome her today at my house , she is ok with that. I have to accept that she manipulates me, but I’m working on breaking the habit of feeling guilty when she is not feeling well because things that happened between us.

Yesterday was one of those days that she was telling me that she feels that visiting me once a week is not enough and that is because my husband. I just told her that she can choose to see things different but not she wants more of the same…so that is what she gets more of the same problems and that this issue has not been going on for a year, it has been there always but I was not brave enough to stop her but now she has to calm down and accept that I have a family . She was in shocked.

at this point I have never again talk about this problems with her to my husband. if he asked me I would say not she is doing ok, we are fine now.

I don’t know ,  she does not wake up.

thank you