I have a similar situation but complicated and crazy. To make a long story short I was with my ex for 10 years, lived together for 9 years. He cheated on me on and off for about 5 years that I didn’t find out until close to the end. They were taking trips together and everything, found letters and read messages of them discussing getting married and having kids. We got into an argument and he told me he decided to leave her along and we would work things out. We went and looked at wedding rings and all. We started going to church, well he had me believing that things had changed. In the mean time he was doing the same thing all over again with a female he worked with. Until one night last October he just decided he wasn’t coming home anymore without telling me and moved in with her. The house we were renting was in his name, he wouldn’t come get his stuff out the house or give me the key back. He felt like he could come and go as he pleased. This Jan I finally felt like I had started to move on, then the girl he moved in with just dropped him and his stuff back off at the house. Needless to say he is currently now living here and he wants us to be friends and I finding it hard to do because feelings are starting to come back. Also he has gotten back in touch with the first girl he cheated on me with for 5 years and has been spending the night and time with her. I understand that me and him are not together anymore but I cant help but to get mad and start fussing with him when I know that’s where he has been. I told him that I feel like we could never be friends because shes in his life. If I had the means to move somewhere else I would but financially I cant right now. I feel a lot of hurt and pain all over again that I thought I had gotten over. I just really don’t know what to do or how to go about handling this situation.