Thanks for your response. Yes my significant other (she) did blame my best friend (also she) for coming between us. And yes, she openly told her that she didn’t like the amount of time we spent together (we were writing together something we both have in common). But since my SO has been seeking spiritual help, she has changed. She no longer blames my friend for our problems, realizes we were growing apart. But when she went to meet with my BF so the two could have a “healing” my BF got angry and blamed her for not taking responsibility within our relationship. So the healing never really happened between them. I no longer expect the two of them to be “friends” and accept that neither of them really like the other one; but up until about a month ago – I was still friends with my BF. Only now she says she just wants to cut me out of her life because she doesn’t like the situation between all of us. My SO is fine with my being friends with her, she just doesn’t want to have to be friends with her.