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  • May 27, 2015 at 6:14 am in reply to: don't understand how to meet my needs for love alone #77354
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    well i mean yeah, its less about “here is the formula i need written in x book” and more about me just trying to utilize tools available to see if maybe something sticks with me.

    anita – i do not know how to look inside myself… how do i find what i need within?
    i don’t have health insurance, can’t afford health insurance, and can’t afford a therapist out of pocket… definitely would benefit from one though.

    i truly appreciate your thorough answers, both of you

    i know if i were able to find the reasons for these feelings, i could tackle these reasons and probably feel okay. but it feels so deep and so hidden and i’m having a hard time accessing this side of myself, it almost feels potentially like a past life issue or something, very out of reach for me which is weird because i am generally so open with my own emotions all of the time

    May 26, 2015 at 6:57 am in reply to: don't understand how to meet my needs for love alone #77265
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    thanks for your response, i don’t know, it feels like less of hard work and more like there are steps that need to be taken that i am not aware of

    May 25, 2015 at 9:05 pm in reply to: My Boyfriends Parents Give Me The Bad Vibe #77254
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    this sounds so horrible

    but it also sounds like none of this is your boyfriends fault… i hope this does not sound harsh, but, if he is being treated by them this way, that abusive and controlling behavior will cause him to yield to them because that’s how abuse works.

    what you want is 100% fair, and its good that you can see what is going on for what it is, but it seems like this is out of your control. it seems like the only way anything is going to be different is if A) he goes to family therapy with his parents and works things out with them somehow or B) you two figure out the financial means to move away somewhere together…

    it is extremely unfortunate that his parents have become so pervasive that they are coming between your relationship. they are absolutely out of line, everything you have listed there.

    i have to tell you though: you are not in the wrong in any way, as far as what i can deduce from what you have written. don’t let anybody let you think so.

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