I hear a common theme in this thread. A question for all who felt the arguments or problems were/are petty – To the other party involved, were those issues petty to them? Perhaps our ego has come into play and reduced our vision. Our loved ones as individuals will have different opinions and as a couple may even feel hurt by our reactions to what they deem important. These hurts, silent as they may be, can cause tiny splits in our communication. If someone feels they are not heard in a relationship it will lead to resentment and defence. There is room for room in these situations, be patient and kind while you are separated. Do not smother him and give him the space. Clarity will come to you and you’ll have an answer in time.