Hi 2003pal,

What you said about your partner, “When he feels like he will speak to me and then suddenly he stops speaking” speaks volume with me. Im going through the same thing in my relationship. I’m trying to be there for them, but it usually drives them into a ball and passive behaviour. My only advice to you is, express that you’re here for them, if and when they’re ready to communicate. Their behaviour is really selfish in my opinion, but what can you do? Just concentrate on yourself and occupy your time with personal activities, don’t fall into bitterness.

I hope things turn around for you and me both.