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August 12, 2019 at 4:05 pm in reply to: How to distance oneself from someone you have feelings for? #307711GParticipant
Mark– I think that is the most logical choice to make. I’ve been doing some thinking, and I’m realizing that there’s a lot of vulnerability that comes with admitting you have feelings for someone and that’s whats scaring me. But its a fear that I guess I have to overcome
Hi Anita–yes it is definitely easier to type a message. I guess I’m just worried about conveying what I feel in a way that isn’t overwhelming or off putting. I most likely am over thinking this
Hello Inky– Yes, I know his name, I know what he looks like, I know where he’s from, his age, what his voice sounds like, etc. So it’s not like I’m going off of purely text online. I would actually love to meet him in person and we’ve spoken about it. It’d be cool to see how we interact in real life. School is starting up in a few weeks and that’ll give me an excuse to be busy and be in contact less. I know I’ll miss him a lot 🙁
Valora–your story definitely makes me feel less embarrassed. All of the things you’ve mentioned make sense, but the one thing that I try to remind myself is that he doesn’t see me in that way. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. The distance would definitely be an issue and that’s something that I also try to remind myself of. Thank you for the advice 🙂
August 12, 2019 at 5:52 am in reply to: How to distance oneself from someone you have feelings for? #307633GParticipantHi, thank you for responding ❤️
I mean just distancing myself from him emotionally. No, he doesn’t have a girlfriend but when I hear him talk about girls it makes me feel weird sometimes. Sometimes I’m like ok whatever it doesn’t really bother me but sometimes I wish he saw me in a romantic light. And the reason why we haven’t met up is due to money and we live multiple states away.
I really like him as a person and that’s why I talk to him all the time. I’m quite introverted so I’m not the type to consistently talk to someone all day and everyday, but with him I do because I enjoy his energy. I’m going to reply to his messages less, I just don’t want to hurt him or make him worry which is why I’m considering telling him how I feel and why I feel the need to distance myself. I’m just really scared is all.
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