Hi everyone.
I need some advice about a situation I have no idea what to do about. I am so glad I found this website and after going through some forums I think this one can help.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we live together and have four chinchillas. I love him and he loves me, But I do not think he is In Love with me anymore.
He often chooses work above me, he does not consider me when he is talking about things or even talking about me and he has blatantly ignored some of my feelings about some very intensive topics like sexual assault and rape culture as a whole. He knows that I was sexually assaulted as a teen and that he should be wary about the way he speaks to me about this topic and I have told him before.

There is one other thing, he has one big problem with his temper but when we started going out he told me he would work on it. Last night while playing some online games together, he got so mad at a person on the other team that he slammed his fists into our desk, nearly breaking it. His temper scares me and after a year together he has not done anything to stop his temper and often rash decisions. I am honestly scared he might lose his temper with me one day and I do not have any idea what would happen then and that is something that always scares me, since he loses his temper often.

I have spoken to him about all the problems above and promises have been made but just this past week he volunteered to work a day that he had promised me we would be able to go out before I start my afternoon shift where I work. He got home by the time I was at work and we have not had anytime after that to spent time together. Lately we only see each other in the evenings and something like that would not have taken a toll on our relationship if he would just give more effort or think about me more during the day. As most people say, actions speak louder than words.
I honestly am so confused about this whole relationship and I honestly need some solid advice because at this point I both want to be with him and want to be away from him .
I really need help. Should I stay?