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  • in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450846
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    Who doesn’t have fun with me? I wanted to see her too but I’m realistic.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450840
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    Well I don’t plan to talk to her for a month while she gets used to home life again, she never responded to me so she obviously did not like my text of not seeing each other again so I guess she wanted to see me, but we never hung out before so I’d obviously not think she was serious.

    I’ll try.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450832
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    Oh I know it won’t help me in the future but she’s going 9000kms away, not much I can do. She’s going to be at the other side of the world, leaves nothing left and by the time I can see her we’d likely not be talking anymore.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450828
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    That’s fine I bounce back. Our last messages were basically

    Her: Plan to visit my country!!
    Me: After Thailand? Sure but I’d need a tour guide, know any? 😀
    Me: You know I’m playing around, right? I know we won’t be seeing each other anymore lol. Just wanna let you know so you aren’t creeped out or anything.

    I mean it’s not like I will text her I’m in Thailand and to come and see me, I’m there visiting a buddy and his mom. Maybe her country we can if she asks to meeet me, won’t go out of my way to say “hey I’m here let’s meet up”.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450817
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    Yeah I told her I will miss her today (she said hahahaha I will miss you too), she’s about to head back home. Joke with her about traveling and seeing her, but let her know I’m just playing around and I’m not serious, I know I’ll never see you again. She asked me about a visa when I visit my buddy and said I’ll only be a few weeks but I’ll see if she’s around and can come, she said lol (which means no). At the end I said I am not serious about seeing her, just playing around. She’s gone, probably won’t be talking to her again. 15 hours is too far.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450789
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    In person goofing around? Yeah. But I won’t go after her obviously.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450784
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    Hey been a weird month losing most of my stuff. Anyway nothing really changed, still talk but gave her a voice message and wanted to get 1 back but she is a shy girl so gave it a shot before deleting it. Almost been a month now, will have to tell her I miss her soon.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450470
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    Even if I don’t go with her, i’ll see my budy so doesn’t matter really. Known him since he was born.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450463
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    Hmmmm I guess she’s not done with me yet…started really messaging me today since I invited her to come with me to Thailand when I get my passport when I visit my buddy there, probably next year sometime. Need money first. I guess she really was wanting to travel with me afterall.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450405
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    Will miss you too.

    It was an interesting time, from the first time we met anytime I was in the lunchroom and she was there she would imediatly stare at me and rarely look away (either attraction or curiousity), it was awkward. But it eventually stopped when we started talking a little. She has that sweet Taiwanese girl voice and from the games we played like thumb wars, she would link her arms slowly into mine (testing boundaries), to trying to jump on my back, to lifting her up on my side and swinging her around, to chasing her watching her giggle, to trapping her in the corner with a cart so she can’t get out, to our phone games (showing out pets on our phone and acting them out), leaning on her, our backs together and trying to move (one of her favourites), when she sees me in the morning run towards me and bump my side, stand infront of me with her eyes shut and a smile using her teeth, to our poking eachother and our tickling eachother, i’d put a box on her head and my eyes would go to the holes in the box and met her eyes there, or revearsed it, and constantly tagging her with a sticker gun, or her tagging me…my supervisor always had a smile when we were around eachother, same with 1 of the bosses, and a bunch of other things we did together, plus what I mentioned about her last day at work wanting to be around me and the text. No doubt this was some type of “romantic” interest, sadly she had to go back home but I am sure I made an amazing impression on her (like she did me).

    I’m sure if I asked if she wanted to do something outside of work we would make awesome memories, but you should not ask coworkers out (then again we also should not have done most of the things we did anyway, but it felt right so we did it).

    Now I am out.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450387
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    Oh I am sure it’s over by now between us lol, I mean we were just co workers and I don’t like keeping them around when they quit because you never see or talk to them again. Maybe i’ll reach out 1 day who knows, if I can’t connect with her in person (which I can’t) what’s the point? 1 line of text a day is not enough for me, especially if I can’t even see and talk to the person. I’ll miss her quite a bit but It was never going to work out as she was leaving the country. I don’t take offense to being ghosted, she’s leaving the country and maybe she really was just thinking of me as a co worker platonic friend but liked the attention, who knows. But if she only found me as a platonic friend, she would likely be repulsed by our touching. You need physical connection to another person, talking was never our thing…physical touch and flirtation was. I got stuff to do now, no time to mope. I moped when my dad died, now it’s time to move on. I guess this thread is finished, never meant it to last long but decided to post this connection here because it’s been a while since I posted. I’m sure I will be around again with another situation.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450384
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    Hmmm my post didn’t seem to work…

    Anyway I said she didn’t say anything which is an answer itself when someone says “I liked you more then I should have” so deleted the chat. A guy at work spreading rumors to people that I wanna have sex with her and every woman that talks to me wants to have sex with me and another one keeps saying he talks to my dead dad…Another guy in my department that see’s everything unlike the nay sayers “you guys were all over eachother”.

    Anyway I think her invite was more joking around like “haha It’s too expensive you come to me” sort of thing even if it was the 3rd time she invited me to see her.

    me: “Lol yeah, Canada airlines trying to keep us apart 😏”
    her: “Noo hahaha. How about come and travel” (she actually said come to travel not and travel, same thing).

    What you think?

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450361
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    It’s cool, this was basically our convo.

    me: “Hey, when you coming back? I still wanna seeya soon. ;)”

    her: “Hahahah I did check flights, they are so expensive!”

    me: “Lol yeah, Canada airlines trying to keep us apart 😏 Anyway wish you all the best and thanks for the cookie. Peace out!”

    her: “Noo hahaha. How about come and travel”

    me: “Haha careful, I might actually show up 😏 frfr though, I probably liked you a little more then I should have knowing we would be a million miles apart. Guess that’s what happens when someone’s as fun as you but I got a bunch of stuff going on here “

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450254
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    I got too much stuff to do and I refuse to get worked up about another friggin girl.

    in reply to: Feelings for co worker? #450253
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    “Hey, when you coming back? I still wanna seeya soon. ;)”
    “Hahahah I did check flights, they are so expensive!”
    “Lol yeah, Canada airlines trying to keep us apart 😏 Anyway wish you all the best and thanks for the cookie. Peace out!”

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