Hi Daniel,

I completely feel your feelings as one of my best friend she, 25 years old, is suffering the same of your issues. She has changed from one to other dating apps but none of them really worth it. I remember once she had really strong feelings and connection with 1 guy on Tinder but at the end he was just a guy with ” common purpose” that usually found on dating apps. So, as sharing this with you, I just want you to know that you are not the only one out there, it could be a wrong time in a wrong place for you to find your “real happiness”. Remember that: Good things always take time.

It is very understandable while you are suffering with your anxiety and being hunted with those same feelings over again in a very short time. It is very hard cause we always think about negative sides than positive sides. Also me, I am suffering from anxiety to depression. All I can advice you is, we are still young, and we are worth to be happy in our personal boundary. We allow to express our feelings in both emotional and physical ways, but when it is right person coming, you will feel it in your heart and your decision is in your mind. Eventhough if you are a good and a gentleman, but we need that “spark” from the very first conversation. Be sincere, strengthens the relationship through ongoing, honest communication. For me, I will feel comfortable and interested in a guy that I can trust every single word he says to me. Don’t make a fake profile just to try messaging your partner and seeing if they respond. Please share what you’re looking for in a partner and also ask what they’re looking for but remember, we can be friend. As being a new friend, a lots of interesting to talk to each other every day. Good hints for you: during a conversation, try to add a little cute sentences randomly ( I bet ya dont remember me but i’m the one in your dream). Something is not too over but something little may helps.