Hi Niya,

i am actually on the same boat or sort of similar . I been having an affair with a married man everytime he comes visit me for business trip. He has 2 kids too. One is 3 month or so and another one is around 4-5 years old. It been so hard for me to get over him bc I really sincerely enjoyed being with him and the sex was great. But recently he wanted to end us because he wanted to be a good dad. It’s hard for me to get him out of my mine and I have trouble focusing at work bc he is all what I think about. At the end I have to let him go. Because you don’t want to f~ with karma. I thought to myself how would I feel if my future husband did this to me? I would be heart broken. Esp when you have kids you can’t think about yourself but the kids future.! So let it go…move on~~~~ once a cheater always a cheater who knows how many girls he has (both our guys) they prob have diff girls in diff country/state everytime they go for “business trip” be smart abt it… after that I stopped or at least try to stop txting ….failed here and there ..it will take time but we can do this!