you both are amazing! thank you for taking the time to write all you did. Sometimes you need you have someone else that isn’t emotionally invested to give direction and advise that’s not hinged on such emotion.

I tend to be hyper sensitive when it comes to someone or something hurting my kids. Like rageful. I kept my cool on the initial but the responding texts full of spiteful and condescending comments through me into a spin.

Ive decided that if he responds abusively via text that he will be told that it is unacceptable and further texts will lead to a number change and he will need to go through a third party to mediate. He will loose all privileges.

I didn’t leave him and better my life to be sucked back into a hell hole right? ra ra