Hi Alicia,
I definitely think you need to move on. You should break it off with him and then cut all contact with him completely. I recommend that you check out the “Baggage Reclaim” website by NataLie Lue. There are many helpful articles there that will advise you. I really think the woman that writes the articles is a genious when it comes to relationships. Click on the List of Posts tab at the top. Then you can go through all the blogs and read all of the ones that apply to your situation. i think it will really help you.
Good Luck!
Jean