Hello,

I’ve been going through it with a younger guy for almost two years now. He is hot and cold. He tells me he’s not ready for commitment, sends me pictures of other girls. Disrespects me all the time. Yet he always comes back and I let him in. There is way too much history to explain it would take forever. I just don’t know how to let go. He gets jealous and asks everytime we see each other if I’ve been with anyone else, always accuses me of lying then will joke around cause he knows I’m all about him. He will go days without calling and basically only wants me when he wants me. What should I do… I just want to end the instanity of loving a unavailable person. We go back and forth over and over and I just can’t do it anymore. Is it worth it to wait for him to be ready or should I just move on? I’m so confused!