Thank you for your replies. I have been trying to let him take the lead, but I worry about him, and text him asking how he is once a week. Do you think I should stop doing that too?

Mepina thank you so much for your reply. I think you are right. I do have low self esteem and I fear being rejected as I had been in a very bad relationship previously. I fear getting cheated on. I do think you are right in saying that I need to concentrate on myself. But I also feel I’m very insecure when it comes to relationships. I’m too afraid to get emotionally attached to someone.i don’t know how to feel secure again. I really want to.can you please give me some suggestions on that too.