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  • in reply to: Life after double betrayal #69293
    RoseAnna
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    Hi again Mefisto,

    If you really hate the idea of meds and despise them it sounds like your natural instinct is kicking in.

    I think they’re very dangerous things, and if you want to find yourself in a better life situation my thoughts would be stay away from them. This is a chance to keep moving forward.

    A lot of the problems you faced ‘right after’ you stopped taking them were probably side effects of them leaving your body. Probably side effects that make you really keen to get back on them. They make pharmaceutical companies millions of pounds/dollars every year. It seems like they are there to make profit more so than help people get better.

    And anyway they will make you forget who truly holds the power and the answers to get you through this. You!
    We hope to help you a little along the way be reminding you of this.

    It’s really great that you’ve been able to get off them before, this shows you have a great strength within you. Stay on the path that you’re on.

    I think Dude’s given good advice, getting yourself out there and doing something interesting will definitely help. Also think about the new life that you want to now create for yourself. You deserve great things to happen in your life and they will. This is one of life’s storms, ride it out- it will calm and then the sun can start to break through.

    Lots of love and light to you from the UK xxx

    in reply to: Life after double betrayal #69239
    RoseAnna
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    Hello Mefisto, my friend.

    Sending you much love and positive energy in this time of darkness that you’re going through.

    Sometimes the darkest moments in our lives are the ones that allow for the most growth and transformation. It may not feel like it now but what has happened to you has happened for a reason. Our minds cannot always understand or accept this when we are going through such painful moments in our lives, but please remember this time will pass- the pain will subside, and you will realize that this is just an experience that can be helpful for you.

    The wonderful people here have already given some great advice. I would just like to add that it’s ok and normal for you to feel the emotions you’re feeling, and even to feel like there’s no advice that will help.

    Just consider that their advice has already helped you, just by them giving it to you they are giving you love (and good ideas in the actions they’ve advised).

    And you are already helping to love and heal yourself by reaching out to and connecting with the people here.

    In your heart some of this may ring true, even though at this time the pain is so raw your mind will tell you you cannot accept it. But it’s important to remember that you life is not defined by the pain that you are feeling. You are experiencing pain that is totally normal considering that events that have happened in your life. But this pain will pass- their is something deeper at the core of you that will overcome this. We must trust in ourselves that we can always find happiness and deal with these experiences in a way that will allow us to live our lives in love and positivity.

    My final most important tip: Focus only on yourself now.
    This is a great chance for you to discover who you really are.
    Relaxing and Thought Provoking Video on Happiness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KopmSpe33Eg
    and I highly recommend Eckhart Tolle’s book The Power of Now.

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