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  • October 16, 2016 at 12:25 pm #118324
    gervaise ledger
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    Thanks – i have no choice sadly. It’s not the abuser they are blackmailing its myself and my brother (the victims)
    It’s all so sick

    October 16, 2016 at 12:07 pm #118322
    gervaise ledger
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    My oldest brother married and had kids and grandkids and he never let a finger on them.
    He is well loved and adored. I have spent a lot of time talking with his wife and kids about this situation. We think it may be part of a mental illness or the neurological condition he has which left him dying. He has had to have medication all his life.
    It took me and my brother a long time to be able to confront him and forgive and let go.
    It’s been painful and difficult.
    And now this.

    October 16, 2016 at 12:01 pm #118320
    gervaise ledger
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    Hi Anita
    Sorry I was trying to keep description brief. We have big age gaps in ny family. I and my brother who are the 2 youngest of 5 children were abused by the eldest brother 50 years ago. The other 2 sisters were not. The 3 eldest are close in age.
    There is a 23 year gap between myself and the oldest brother…The abuser.
    He has a few months left to live of a terminal illness currently. He is 75.
    The oldest sister’s and a brother in law are threatening to disclose the abuse my brother and I suffered publicly – it seems it relates to possible inheritance.
    Am totally gobsmacked even writing this.

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