Hi Anita, I had a very happy marriage for the majority, I would say the last 5 years were very unhappy, my husband suffered from depression and he pushed me away in the end and I myself was very depressed for the first 2 years of our breakup. I then got myself together and moved on with my life building up my career , buying a house and generally having a happy stress free life. My 3 wonderful children are now all grown up and self supportive. The man I met is a wonderful person but he has the world on his shoulders and it scares me that I could be going down the same path being with someone that can suffer with depression. I am thinking that I would rather be on my own for the rest of my life than feel the way I do at the moment.