Dear Dana,

After reading your writing one thing i would like to tell you is,

Loving someone unconditionally is the only way to love someone,

your facing it from last two years and your mind and heart both are occupied with his thoughts, this is absolutely fine, because you love him genuinely,

let me tell you one thing i am facing such scenario in my life since last 4 years, we both are working in same office, everyday i have to face her, she don’t care anything about my feelings, its hurts when i see her flirting with other guys in office, year ago i was in similar situation like yours, i can say worst than yours because she claimed that is was never love it was just lust,

Deep down under only i know how genuine and pure my feeling are for her,

But then everyday i was hurting myself  by observing her in details (Including her behavior and social networking like you mentioned Facebook)

But one day when i talked to myself on very deeper level

Somethings that i realized and eventually these help me out :

1. My love for her is unconditional so it really doesn’t matter what she is thinking about it or how she behaving with me.

2. Don’t except anything from anyone, expectation will gonna hurt you only.

2. She knows her life and her choices better so let her live her life as i don’t have any control on her life. my part is just pray and do good for her whenever possible because fate will play its role anyway no matter what you do.

3. Till today first thing i do in the morning every single day is pray for her health, happiness and family, it release my emotion burden.

4. Sometimes not getting what you want is ultimate stroke of luck.

5. Do believe in KARMA, because it will play its role for sure.

I hope this will help you out

Keep Smiling, Keep Loving