Anita this is the most beautiful thing I’ve read that you have written. Radical acceptance is what will help me. Today Mother’s Day I see his family I have been a part of for 30 years aren’t reaching out to me. And I feel they never really liked me. Another goodbye. But I get stuck in what ifs and what I think his family should do. I just get angry and hurt in a different way. It’s not helping me let go. So today he is not here. His family is not reaching out. But my daughter and my friends are helping me. Do you know of a book that I can read? You have been so helpful. I feel like when I read what you wrote there is a fishing line pulling me back to myself and feel a little more grounded. Thank you again. Suzanne.