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February 29, 2016 at 7:47 pm #97681SerendipityjParticipant
Thanks, Anita. I sure hope so 🙂
February 29, 2016 at 6:57 pm #97676SerendipityjParticipantNo, I didn’t ask if she received it. I didn’t want to put her on the spot. I sent it not expecting a response I guess. This whole situation is tiring. Especially when I don’t know where I stand or what’s going to happen. Special people like her don’t come along too often, you know? She’s still hung up on her ex and that’s the hardest part.
February 29, 2016 at 6:14 pm #97670SerendipityjParticipantWell, she never acknowledged the card. I don’t know if she never received it or just didn’t want to say anything. She has initiated texts so it’s not like she’s ignoring me. We are still only texting about once a week for maybe 30-60min. I’m getting frustrated and am starting to wonder if she’ll ever come around. I’m not really sure what to do now.
February 17, 2016 at 7:31 pm #96376SerendipityjParticipantI will let you know! I’ve been thinking about unique ways to let her know I care without being pushy. I know sending a card isn’t necessarily unique, but it has become something of the past it seems. Thanks for all of your kind words. 🙂
February 17, 2016 at 7:22 pm #96372SerendipityjParticipantAs always, thank you, Anita. Something is telling me to be patient. Every time I sit down and really think about the situation, the words “be patient” always surface. I don’t know if it’s wishful thinking on my part or if something greater than myself is intervening. I would like it to be the latter. 🙂
February 17, 2016 at 6:53 pm #96367SerendipityjParticipantWell, I sent her a card. It was just a light hearted card that made me laugh. I thought I would send it to her so she could smile too. I wrote a little message, very light hearted ending with I hope she’s doing well. I just want her to know that I genuinely care without being pushy. I truly do want what’s best for her. And, I want her to know I’m still here.
February 13, 2016 at 6:20 pm #95993SerendipityjParticipantWell, throughout the week we texted here and there. Usually I didn’t text her unless she texted me first. Well yesterday I texted her and got a two word response. I haven’t heard anything from her today. I guess I have to be prepared that this could be a pretty long process and may not end in my favor, but i have to believe that it will. I have to believe in fate. I have to believe in something. Thank you Anita for your insight. You’ve really helped a lot. Thank you.
February 9, 2016 at 5:10 pm #95614SerendipityjParticipantWell, she sent me a text today while I was at work asking how my day was going so I replied on my lunch. She asked if she could call and we talked for about an hour. Just about general topics but it was so good to hear her voice 🙂
February 7, 2016 at 7:47 pm #95232SerendipityjParticipantI wish she knew too 🙂
February 7, 2016 at 7:17 pm #95230SerendipityjParticipantThank you, Anita. People like her don’t come along too often. Once in a lifetime. She’s pretty special.
February 7, 2016 at 12:14 pm #95211SerendipityjParticipantHello,
So the last time I talked to her was a week ago. On Friday I sent a text just saying that I’m thinking of you and I hope you’re alright. She did respond today, and we texted back and forth briefly, just talking about general subjects. I’m so confused with everything, but I think I may be overthinking everything. She needs time to get her head right. I just wish she could see herself through my eyes, because she’s amazing. I’m just worried that she won’t see me the same way.
February 2, 2016 at 6:51 pm #94762SerendipityjParticipantThank you, Anita. I haven’t heard from her for a couple days. I guess time will tell. Thank you for your support and advice.
February 1, 2016 at 7:48 pm #94649SerendipityjParticipantDina and Anita, thank you so much for your insights. Dina she has said that she has to take a step back so she can clear her head and give us a fair chance. The scary part for me is that since she has said that, things have changed a lot. More so than I expected I guess. I don’t even feel like I’m in the friend zone anymore…..more like the barely an acquaintance zone. I guess I just have to trust that things will work out for us, just to give it more time. There’s no doubt she’s supposed to be in my life. You don’t cross paths with someone three times and end up unknowingly living in the same state coincidentally.
Again, thank you for the insight and encouraging words. I really appreciate it.
February 1, 2016 at 7:18 pm #94638SerendipityjParticipantI prefer calm as well. I guess that’s why I don’t understand the dynamic of it all. I have a feeling she’ll be back. I can’t see how being insulted and screamed at would be anything anybody would ever put up with for long.
February 1, 2016 at 5:47 pm #94629SerendipityjParticipantThank you, Anita. I guess I just don’t understand. I haven’t heard from her at all today which I’m not surprised after I told her I was going to lay low for awhile. She thanked me for giving her space and said she was dealing with emotional bs from the ex. Why am I being pushed away? Is this a normal reaction when dealing with a toxic ex?
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