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  • in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186427
    Kate
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    Dear Alex,

    thanks for your advice, ill try to do that. 🙂

    in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186239
    Kate
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    Dear Anita,

    that would actually make a lot of sense and puts some things into perspective. Thanks for this insight 🙂

    in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186103
    Kate
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    Dear Anita,

    I have stayed with his parents before and he has told me a fair bit about his family. I know that he has a severely mentally handicapped older sister, and that his dad can be a bit skeptical about women’s intentions since he himself had a bad experience when he was younger, and even once tried to talk him into cheating on me, which he said he refused to do (and i believe him on that one). He also lives in the country, and mentioned once that he would spend months in the house with no one to talk to during the day when he was a young kid, and that it caused him to be very introverted (something that contradicts a lot of his other characteristics i have observed), and has even said that he wouldn’t mind becoming a hermit one day, which also juxtaposes his very socialite lifestyle. His relationship with his parents otherwise is very strong and they are all quite close.

    in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186089
    Kate
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    Hi No.1Pixie,

    thats a fact I’m sadly learning the hard way i feel. one of my biggest worries is that ill never get over it, since it all seemed so perfect.

    in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186087
    Kate
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    Hi Anita,

    well this is where i get a bit confused too. He has a kind heart and was always willing to help me which gave me hope, but this one time a bit less than 2 years ago he had a crisis because he thinks he can’t feel emotions as deeply as everyone else, like he has a limited range or something. He has moments where he’s all in love, would do anything for the relationship, and others where there is just nothing there. its a bit frightening honestly. Also the way he treats his friendships has always concerned me. He has a lot of friends, and loves to see them, but i see no warmth in his relationships with them, like they are tokens or a novelty to be had. There were times i thought he had a lot of emotional intelligence and depth, like when he helped me, and other times he displays almost sociopathic levels of inability to have sympathy and understand other people.

    in reply to: sudden breakup has left me brokenhearted #186085
    Kate
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    Hey Dee,

    It was one of those things where at the time i didnt see it coming but signs were there. throughout the relationship he had about 2 episodes where he would get doubts and question the entire thing, and then over night change his mind back again. He is 21

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