I have no idea what to do next. I am from a orthodox muslim family. I have a relationship when I am in college. I couldn’t say it is a relationship. In y collage days I got a new friend and He becomes My bestiee. He also considering me like ore than a best friend. Slowly I falling love with him. But the fact that i didn’t say it him directly. but he knows well.
unfortunately after my studies my parents arranged my marriage and I opposed. But I didnt say them I am in love with other guy. Because I am not sure will he accept me or not. Finally I asked him but he said no. he never consider me like a girl friend. After that he didn’t speak also. Just avoided . I donno how to survive that situation. At the same time my parents arranged everything for my marriage and I spoke to that guy that I dont want to marry you. But That guy didn’t hear my words. In last year I married Him. Without my permission my wedding over. I tried my level best to adjust with him. But i couldn’t. My husbnd hurt me physically and mentally. he never tried to understand me. Now he going to file a case for divorce. I donno what to do. Everyone saying he will change. go for a counseling definitely he will change. but the main part is that I don’t have any affection to him. then How can I change him? What Should I do?