We went to a pastor Connie. Not to a counselor. He is not interested in it.

Actually I was diagnosed with vaginisms, so I went to the psychiatrist for the same. I was told that he should also be there as the treatment is given to the couple. He is unwilling to come with me to the doctor also.

I am really suffering. At the same time I’m not able to decide on what to do about our future. I’m not ready to separate as I take my vows seriously.

Yes Connie. He is a very insecure person. He says that if I don’t agree to his terms we must separate.

My parents suggested us to have a joint account where we both put in equal amounts to take care of our common expenditure. I am open to that. But what is remaining should be none of his concern. When ever he needs financial assistance I always help him.