I keep getting emails about this thread, so for those asking, yes we are still together and engaged in fact. Things are good now and my partner has struggled healing from his ex because she was and is a narcissist and treated him terribly.

Ron – I’m a little confused by some of your posts and don’t quite understand what you are talking about, I don’t mean to be rude!

If I could delete this thread I would because I’d rather not keep getting reminded of it and what happened every time it gets posted to. It does still upset me a bit and I still find it hard to get my head around sometimes but I am a lot more secure in my relationship and wouldn’t have agreed to marry him if I believed this was still an issue for him. I hope this answers everyone’s questions so that this thread can be left alone now, thanks