To add a few words to what the others have already said.

The phrases: “I love you” or ” you are impure”, are extremely polarized ways of thinking of you. For some, and maybe this is the case, good and bad are separate and cannot coexist. You either are perfect when you fulfill what is expected, or, if there is any fault you are become worthless and lose the good quality you had.

If this is the case, my advice is to stay away. You are yourself, a mixture of good and bad which is the same lovable even with limit and faults.