Dear Blue Ocean,
“I have been very unhappy for most of our relationship.” There it is. You know the answer. I know it hurts and it is scary, but trust me, in one year from now, you will be GLAD you ended this relationship. In one year from now, you won’t be the same person anymore – you’ll be happier and you’ll be able to make new friendships. But in order to be happy, you need to be free. Free yourself from a Person who makes you feel like a terrible Person. That’s not who you are.
Good luck!
Valerie