How could one day he be texting multiple times to check-in on me and the next decide he is fine not ever hearing back from me again
your confusion is understandable, I’ve been through something similar. I came to learn the person had secret mental illnesses, hence the opposing shifts. I chose to support him, but stability couldn’t be.
One responder mentioned depression & you mentioned he felt he needed to be perfect. I’m guessing his inner world is what sabotaged it.
I agree-slower is better.
I found a good website called LoveFraud.com that helped me learn the difference between love bombing & other things.
I hope you find peace & wish you the best,
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