Hi Gina,
I’m deeply sorry and I share your feelings. Our family is now faced with a similar situation. My dad had an aneurysm rupture in early January, he survived the first three brain operations but not a tracheostomy surgery which left him in a persistent coma as a result of a 9-minute heart failure. We are in complete despair as the doctor said there’s no way to bring him back. We are also thinking hard whether we should let him go or fight with him. He lost a lot of weight already and seeing him suffer so much is heart-breaking to everyone in the family. We kept asking ourselves what would be best for our dad, and still we just can’t make a decision for him.

I really don’t know if we can get through this, watching him detoriate beyond recognition is the least we want, however we just miss him so much and we don’t know whether we should wait for a miracle…