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  • March 28, 2018 at 4:43 am in reply to: Stuck with Dating #199775
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    I totally get what you mean. I genuinely believe its the way things have just gone in society nowadays. Everyone is so ‘available’ that no one wants to commit / settle. My Nan says the me- why would a guy commit when he gets what he wants without committing?

    Its a Cliche but just enjoy your life. Im 30 and single and If I met someone and had kids Id be happy with my life, if I didn’t meet anyone Id still be happy with my life. Its my life and Im going to be happy with it either way, and lets face it, its 80% out of our control. And if you are searching for someone which is totally fine, there’s this little thing that happens in between each goal we have and thats called life 🙂 live it, enjoy it and what will be will be.

    June 22, 2016 at 4:13 am in reply to: Over analysing past conversations #107920
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    Hi Molora, Yay Im not the only one who does this!! Haha relax, I think we are all a bit like this. I often think Oh I didnt ask them about this, or that. I should have said this or that but you know what- there are a million ways to reply to a question, so many questions you can ask, so many funny things to be said but you said exactly what needed to be said at that point of time in that conversation and in the amount of time you had together. There are so many factors that make up a situation / conversation so just trust yourself that you responded as was fit in that time. Oh how hind sight is a wonderful thing 🙂 It also sounds like your a little bit shy but just relax and it will all come together. You are lucky to be in such a social job !
    If you really think you should of asked them a question why not drop them an email or message and say hey so sorry I totally forgot to ask about….?
    Hope you feel better about this

    June 22, 2016 at 4:02 am in reply to: I'm lost. Don't know how to move on. #107919
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    ‘I just wanna disappear and disconnect from all the men on this planet’…. Well maybe you should do just that and take a break from men / dating. It sounds like you need to have time with yourself, and let yourself heal from you last relationship. I am too of marrying age and when I became single 9 months ago I thought eeeek am I going to be ok with this? And I can honestly tell you Im having the time of my life just being me. I feel like Im getting reacquainted with the ‘adult’ me and I love it!
    Do not allow yourself to feel pressure from friends or family about when you should settle down. Have faith in the universe, it will come to you when you are good and ready for it. Im the only single, childless one out of all my friends and young family members and they love hearing about my random weekends, the crazy funny dates I have and my next holiday / travel / journey.
    Being single is a call to focus on yourself, sometimes being in a relationship can make you lazy about developing yourself and following your dreams. Being single prompts you to look deep inside yourself and become the person you really want to be. And believe me what you do not heal in your ‘singleness’ will spread like disease in your ‘togetherness’ when do you do meet someone. Enjoy life, dont take it to seriously, watch all the sex and the city box sets, enjoy time with your friends and family and the new you! You will attract the best partner for you when you are yourself, emotionally independent and happy. Have fun 🙂

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