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  • in reply to: My life just got worse #108753
    Tavn
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    Dear Hareesh,

    I think things can seem harder when you’re young, as you are at 21, though you may not feel like you’re very young (I didn’t at your age). Young people are experiencing a lot of things for the first time, and those things seem more intense, and more difficult if they’re unpleasant, because of the novelty.

    But as you grow older and learn more about the world and yourself, it does get easier to handle the difficult times. You learn what you need and you learn how to give it to yourself.

    No one can cope with hard times for you. But that also means no one can take that ability away from you. When I was in my early 20s, I struggled much more with depression and anxiety than I do now. I felt worthless, too. Sometimes I had to take it on faith that there were better days in my future. If I could tell my younger self something, it would be the same thing I will tell you: Trust that it will be better. Trust that you deserve happiness, because you do.

    -Tabby

    in reply to: I give up being a composer #68124
    Tavn
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    Long-time lurker, first-time poster here.

    I felt like I had seen this before, so I did a quick search. Turns out, this guy posted the exact same thing in dozens of forums. He even repeats the same replies. Either it’s a compulsion, he’s trying for a response no one’s giving him, or he’s a very dedicated troll. Probably, the second, with a bit of the third.

    Matt, if by some chance you’re sincere, you badly need to be in the care of a professional, and I hope you get the help you need.

    -tav

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