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  • in reply to: trying to get over a relationship, nothing works! #361848
    taylalouise
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    thanks for your responses anita 😆

    sorry i didn’t word that properly, of course actions are important like i don’t say something and act completely different, i was always big on communication and being open and vocal about everything and she struggled with that. what i deemed to be actions she thought was not as in little things like cooking dinner, picking her up from work, taking care of her when she broke her collarbone etc that all turned into you don’t care, you never did which frustrates me the most because i do care i cared so so much but my actions never showed it?

     

    you’re right i don’t miss a lot of things and i tend to forget the negative but also it’s hard to let go of all the good times and how i did feel. so i guess i’m asking how to deal or combat with the weak moments and moving forward?

    in reply to: trying to get over a relationship, nothing works! #361790
    taylalouise
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    Thank You all for the replies and responses

    To your question Anita me elaborate on what you mean specifically, by “we’re very different in beliefs and what’s important to one another”

    Like she thinks always actions are the most important thing and i don’t, i’m more words of affirmation. also i hold my spirituality very close and important to me and i opened up about it to her and shared it and kinda always laughed about it or took the piss out of it. she’s admitted she’s pessimistic and i’m the positive one so it’s very hard when there’s just a negative thought lingering, like i used to say i always feel like things are a test and you’re testing my actions and everything. i dunno there’s a lot more i just can’t think right now

     

    but thank you so much for the responses!!

    much love

     

     

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