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  • in reply to: Dealing with my second breakup #80120
    BlueButterfly
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    Well, being such a nice girlfriend and did many things to keep him happy what you did was the right thing. Most of us don’t know what we are worth of and we simply chase after the things which we don’t even deserve. You worked so hard for your relationship and he treated you so badly and even started fights over silly things. I appreciate you for what you did. Let him go. You deserve somebody who respects your efforts and appreciate them. I know it hurts but some stuff cannot be avoided in this journey of life. It’s better that you take no help from his mother or his family, it’s better to let things go. Sooner, I promise, you’ll come across the right guy. Good luck!

    in reply to: When you did little mistakes lost the one you loved #80115
    BlueButterfly
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    Dear Anita and Annie, Thanks a lot! Your response meat a lot to me. I was in real need of advices from real persons. I was quite nervous about posting my problem that others might judge me but I was wrong! And yes, my ex sted dad has a great impact on my life, he made me realise how important a mother is to the child as well as his personality happened to make me trust that men are nothing ut monsters.
    I wasn’t in any contact with guys, it was just that we talked closer but my ex made it huge issue. I wasn’t really happy with him but I stayed in the relationship. He never valued my feelings or never understood me clearly and that’s what killing me. Annie, I totally agree with you about relationships.
    Thank you

    in reply to: What is the nicest thing anyone has ever done for you? #80069
    BlueButterfly
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    Hey there!
    Well, there is something I’d love to share with everyone about the “nicest thing” because somebody in my life did this thing to me which got my life better. I’m a 16 year old teen girl living with my mother as my dad is up there in heaven unable to help my poor mother raising me. However, my mother is a great woman who struggled hard in her life and she raised me in such a way that I wasn’t lacking any of my needs and desires. But the cruel world out there isn’t always a better place for a single parent to live peacefully. Eventually many of the unknown men began banging our door at dark midnights knowing about “no man in the house”. My mother, fell into a situation where she had to protect herself and me from cruel world, she had to agree for a second marriage with a man. Good right? Haha, nope! That’s where the story began. My cruel life began to take place when my mum and me moved in with this step dad of mine. He almost got us killed because of his cruelty. I realised he wasn’t the hero in our life, but the great threat who was just after my mother’s money. Money never mattered to us. I saw every cruel thing staying with him. He tortured my mum next to my little growing eyes, I saw his lust, his demonic personality, I thought “Yeah, that’s it. That’s all my life holds”. Life was worst with him. He daily beat up my mum and me, especially my mother. I thought I was gonna be an orphan sooner because I still remember the bruises on my mum’s body. But something got changed. I don’t know whether everyone believes in miracles or no but I do because I witnessed that miracle. There came a man, a total stranger. He wasn’t our relative, wasn’t a friend or anything. He just stepped in. He brought the light into our life, he showed that this can be put into an end forever. My step dad tried several times to kill my mum and me but this man, he stepped forward and protected us both. I really don’t know how to put everything to words but I’m alive because of him, if I’m here typing my story, it’s just because of that strange man who stepped into my life. He not only saved us, he helped us solving all problem. He saved our lives! He protected my childhood, he brought light into our life! That’s the nicest thing that anybody could have done to me. He totally cut the connection between us and my ex step dad. Now he’s living with us. He helped us build home. We moved in together and he’s more than my own mother. He does the nicest thing to us each and every day. He protects us, he loves us like a father, he has become whole world to us. This is what some person did the nicest thing in my life. And his help always inspires me to do nice things to others.
    Thank you!

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