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  • #80552

    BlueButterfly
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    Hello Dana,

    Nice to have you here. Perhaps something like a complexion about you might have happened within you. Like I can’t do this, I’m unable to do so. Or maybe there might have been some changes in your day to day life. Try figuring it out. Ask yourself what’s wrong and why you’re feeling like that, your inner voice replies. If it doesn’t help try meditating. Just don’t stress yourself about anything. Let the things be as it is. Go with the flow.

    May things go smoother with you 🙂

    #80417

    BlueButterfly
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    Hello Piu,
    Welcome to Tiny Buddha! To your question, I think you’re right. Emotions and feelings are the main thing we humans we feel about. It’s not only us, also that neighbour’s cat feels things. Emotions play a great role in our life. They say never let your emotions control you, well if it’s true maybe emotions make us weak, if they’re controlling us, they can make us feel weak easily. Emotions are sometimes both good and bad to us. It’s us who has to make a correct choice of these emotions.
    Tiny Buddha is really a great website. I hope you’ll enjoy 🙂

    #80415

    BlueButterfly
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    I love insects. They’re so tiny and it’s cute to watch them closely. I love butterflies, they’re so beautiful. I love crows. I’ve seen crows being so smart and sharing. People around me say that crows share their food with the other crows. There’s a lot to learn from birds and animals.

    #80406

    BlueButterfly
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    Dear Annie,
    You’re absolutely right. Being so addicted to internet we miss out the little enjoyable things in our life. I was really depressed and stressed when I was much into Faceook. I got my facebook account deactivated recently and my life is really awesome. I realised how badly I was missing my awesome real life. I feel so relaxed and the depression has washed away. The important thing is I no longer have to believe the wrong persons online.

    #80371

    BlueButterfly
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    Hello there!
    I don’t know what you may feel but I JUST HATE FACEBOOK! If I ever felt so bad in my life, that’s just because of fb. I joined fb Four years ago. I was kind of nervous to talk to people by that time. But socialising with unknown people helped me up with being open and coming out of shyness. It did help me but most of the time I got in trouble with people over there who were totally unknown to me. Facebook isn’t bad or anything. But the people using it scare the hell out of me. I got addicted to it so deeply when I began using fb, I always thought about the people I met in fb. All that was on my mind was facebook. It was like, I gave importance to the people over internet instead of the person sitting right next to me. Being so dissolved into it. I got in a lot of troubles. I met wrong people, talked to them and took them too deep into my mind and stuff like that. It totally changed my mind and everything. I was always used to feel somewhat stressed and something like that and I didn’t know why. I even did few mistakes which didn’t even involve my real life. I still do feel hurt and regret over it. There are so many times I asked myself why did I even make a mistake of using facebook? My life was really smooth but everything began collapsing when I took those people on facebook so deeply. I stopped enjoying the things around, in the shorter way I stopped being what I was. Everything got changed.
    I began blaming myself and one day I took a break and questioned myself what was the reason for all these and every reason pointed at facebook. Then, I made a firm decision. I was in pain and figured out why. The people on facebook made my life worse, yet taught me great lessons which I would never forget in my life. I decided to stop it all. I deactivated my fb account one month ago. I stopped thinking about the people on facebook. I told myself strictly that I would never ever gonna get back and if I get a chance I would surely delete the account itself. Now I feel so happy. I’ve become the person I used to be. I enjoy with the person sitting next to me. I’ve started all my good habits again. I observe people. I watch the animals and enjoy the way they behave. I read books. I go out. I’m really happy. I feel so proud of myself for leaving that social network and I proudly say that I’m no more into it. I realised that I’m not a worst person as the people over facebook told me. I haven’t done any single mistake I did in facebook. If there’s anything I feel proud about myself is I set myself free from something which kept on hurting and crushing me. I’m just telling my opinion and experience about facebook, if hurt anybody I’M SORRY!
    Thank you!

    #80365

    BlueButterfly
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    Hey there, please don’t change yourself for others. I tried and trust me, it screwed almost everything in my life. They still judge you. Don’t feel bad about yourself. You’re unique the way you. To be loved or liked by something you don’t have to be good at something, you have to be you, the real you. Just stay the way you are. Who knows! Perhaps there is no as unique as you. Guess what? I showed some persons whom I believed to be admiring me a lot but what happened? They left. I was depressed for a long time. Then I realised that they weren’t real at all. It’s fine if you haven’t have anyone who admires you or something but never ever feel hesitated to express yourself. Maybe there’s at least 3 or 4 persons out of 100 to like you the way you are. Just be yourself and learn new things. Try to improve yourself but never try to change yourself. You’re beautiful the way you are. Sooner or later, you’ll come across the people who love and accept you for who you are. Trust me, nothing stays for permanent. You’ll get people who love you for eternal and accept you with whole heart. Never stop yourself from expressing yourself. If they think you’re annoying or something like that, they’re not that brilliant to understand you that’s it. Never feel low about yourself. Start loving yourself and you’ll find people who love you. See the good qualities within you. You’re nice, you’re sensitive and so on. God bless you.

    #80364

    BlueButterfly
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    Yeah, I believe it’s true. I am the worst enemy to myself in a way where I am innocent. I love being innocent but sometimes it made me run into wrong people and ruin myself. Sometimes being too nice for others or a people pleaser I say, causes a lot of troubles and problems in your life in such a way that no enemy can cause such problems in your life. And sometimes, indulging ourselves in bad tracks or habits also ruin the beautiful life of ourself. And on top of that!! We let others hurt us first of all and there, we are the enemies for ourselves. Yeah, this is true. I strongly agree with this.

    #80363

    BlueButterfly
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    My inspiration is my mother. I love the way she stays constant in every situation. She never got changed or never started treating someone different because of their mistakes or something like that. I love her will power. She’s always strong no matter how hard the things get. I haven’t found anyone like her. I feel she’s the one in million.

    #80362

    BlueButterfly
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    Whenever I feel stressed or something I straightly go for a shower and I don’t know how many hours pass when I’m in shower. The favourite thing I do is grab my favourite book and go on reading and reading. I listen to music most of the time. Drinking hot tea or coffee makes me go all calm and cool. I go for a walk with my mum and of course nature is the best way in order to relax.

    #80361

    BlueButterfly
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    Hello Glet, I’m really sorry to hear about it. Try some new hobbies, explore things and learn new stuff. I bet this helps. Involve yourself with somethin you love. And please, don’t ever think about suicide, it’s no worth while you have your dad who loves you more than anything. Your story touched my heart. Remember, everything happens for a good purpose. Who knows what would have happened if you been to China? We don’t know, do we? See things in positive ways. We don’t know what tomorrow holds, all we have to do is go according to things. Learning something new like, your favourite language, or culture or some hobbies always help you. Grab a book or novel if you haven’t read yet. Trust me, books help more than anything in this world. Do meditation daily. Reading and meditating are always helpful, they ease your pain and make you feel relaxed. Don’t let yourself in depression. I hope things get well soon, God bless you, Good luck 🙂

    #80356

    BlueButterfly
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    Luaren, you’re totally right about it. What we think about ourselves matters the most than what others think about us. And I’m really sorry about your grandmother. May her soul rest in peace. Stay strong. Of course you’re really a beautiful one, both inside and out 🙂

    #80355

    BlueButterfly
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    I too have the same question buzzing in my brain. Do we really have to trust someone with out heart and let them break it or something? I say friendships are far better than romantic relationships. They last longer. But we can’t blame love for all these. Love is beyond everything in this Universe and it’s the strongest emotion or feeling which is understood by every sort of person across the world yet it’s we who are wiping off the real meaning of it and covering it with our false believes. I think any romantic relationship lasts if it has a touch of spirituality or something like that. But I guess friends are better.

    #80354

    BlueButterfly
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    First of all, stop believing that you’re not cute or anything. Even guys don’t give me a second look lol! But I don’t give much attention to that. Well, staying away from someone you liked just because it hurts his girlfriend is really a great thing that anyone could do. I don’t know about others but I really appreciate you for that. You thought about his girlfriend and you walked away right before she could figure it out and falling in depression and all such things. I know I’m bad at speaking lol. Anyway, I feel like he did like you. You say you want him until the end and if you really want him then go ahead.Maybe he liked you so much but couldn’t confess it next to you. Why not give it a chance? If you’re happy with the company of him then don’t loose it. Sorry, if I made msitakes. I really suck a lot. May things be happy for you. Good luck. 🙂

    #80353

    BlueButterfly
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    You’re beautiful the way you are. It’s quite natural when someone worries about what the others think about them but it’s the real trouble when it gets too much. Know that most of the people we have met don’t matter into our life everytime, that’s what I learnt myself. I used to be a people pleaser and always spent my days worrying about what people think about me and always believed that they’re right about me whenever they used to judge me. Trust me, it’s a way of suiciding yourself. I realised it and I tried every way to stop thinking about people’s opinion about me. Don’t care about anyone. The real important person is you. You know you’re nice and good. That’s enough! Never ever lower yourself because of people around you and the way they treat you as. They don’t matter at all. You always can change the environment around you. May God bless you, Good luck 🙂

    #80121

    BlueButterfly
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    Hello
    Well, I know a guy friend of mine who was in relationship with my best friend. Their relationship wasn’t a matured one but it couldn’t be even neglected. He often used to judge her for the way she used to behave and always used to stress on her to change herself. Later, they couldn’t hold on anymore and they both broke up. He always used to talk with me about his relationship’s ups and downs since I was his best friend. What I saw in him after break up was he used to think about her and there are many times where I got calls from him even in the midnights and he used to beg me to help him get back. Guys can be this way too. They still be loving you but they are stopped by the ego within them. I still can’t make out how guys take relationships seriously. Meanwhile, my ex was kind of different guy. He never used to try to patch things up after any fight. It was me who used to run after him for patching up. He never felt anything when I wasn’t around him. The thing that I see common in most of the men or guys is they’re highly egoistic. They don’t like to admit their mistakes or confess about anything. According to me, both the relationships of my friends and me ended just because of the ego in the guys because I saw it happen with my own eyes. Sometimes, even if they did love you for real even after the break ups they don’t like to admit so.

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