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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361723
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for nice words you vividly expressed out for me. I appreciated you Anita, thanks for your generosity and hospitality that you have on me here.

    On the past I flown to Arizona and Lusaka where I renew my medical exam.

    I will always keep you safe in my life.

    Again I have something to share with you.

    Where I came from that is Tonj : is a place where by people will begin to talk about you and wish anything bad to happen in your life.

    Anita,,,,,  marrying my estranged wife has created me to have a lots of disrespect from my age-mate whom we grew up together. Now everyone is talking about me that why did Gregory, marry this girl who has no respect at the first place? I got no value at the moment due to this married I had been wrestling with.

    I understand I can’t do anything for their interest but whatever happens ,  has happened already,,  due to the mislead of people who are jealous toward me.

    Anita,,,,  I’m a fighter who struggle for the betterment of my own life and my beloved son Christopher Agoth Gregory,  thou I have persist with the disrespect from my own young mate who have never defeated me in any life status or Academic studies in class or any other things that could be done manually.

    I got a lots of discouraging and hurtful words from my closest friend Martin Mabior mawien,  who have had been my favorite friend ever since I was young up-to date…….  Telling me most of the young men in Tonj 90% disrespect you because of your wife you marry those days. He advice me not to help anyone again who help your help from the airport and I should try to avoid whoever,  I will see as long as he is from Tonj. They also add on that “I cons people” how???? and where did I collided with them????  It is that people tried hardly to traced my number thou I could change it from now and then due to the disturbance for their calls just to help them to be put on board whenever, they want to travel to Tonj. Flight to our place Tonj are rare and difficult to be find……. So they try to look for me to help them but I still get back words in returns. I promise not to help anyone again and again. And I will try to avoid them this time.

    Good enough Kenya is resuming on 1st of next month which help me to go back to school early.

    Anita, I’m too annoyed with them,,,  too frustrated with their words,,,,,,  too extravagant with heir. I never which to have any problems with anyone in my entire life.

    Little did I know early,  that where u grow up is not a good environment u could be.

    I know very well I’m a fighter for my education,  a fighter for my life,  a fighter to see things are going in the right path in my life struggles.

    And I’m sure with the positivity that my son and I,  are going to do wonders in this generation and I promised myself I will be good example to others in life and not bad example at all.

    I will never allow any defeat completely in my life. I’m capable to go far in life. And I will be pointed in some days.

    Cheer Anita.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361673
    Thondit
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    I will come with your gift after I land in boston…… and. Maimi too.

    These are places I will be going through.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361671
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita (Swiri mommy),

    Nina ona akawa vizuri sana. I mean this is so sweet and wonderful. I’m glad and much appreciated in all your replies. They are so encouraging and emotional in someone’s life like me.

    U are so kind to  everyone too.  So blessed by the way.  U are unbreakable bond mommy ….. You are uncomparable human beings,,,,,,  very organized woman on earth.

    I I have a lots of words to describe you . On the other hand I have flown to US several times And if I had known you earlier I would have contact you to meet.

    Put one thing in your mind,,,,,  I’m coming to US  next month for my type rating for my Q400

    in reply to: McCloud Antonov/ Gregory #361624
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    You are welcome mommy.

    Thank you so much for the good cared about me. May God continue to blessed you with your beautiful family.

    Be blessed.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361622
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank you so much for the good thing you had been doing to keeping me safe from this people and guiding me from the from the enemy like estranged wife. How happy I’m today to be with you as your son to be cared of. As I always do my things I find myself that I have my Lee way,  which is Anita,  to back me up. Hopefully thanks for having knowledge about me and the family at large. Besides which country do you live in Anita?  I might fly there one day I know and I have to meet you in person with the give at my hand to present to you.

    However,  I promise that I will keep myself from this people and keep my son away from them too. Drop me your whatsapp number mommy.

    All the best.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361607
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    You have absolutely correct and understood me. She is a terrible woman.

    Thanks , you are reallly  .

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361549
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita.

    1. The policeman /dj is wasting is own time because,,,,  the people of my father-in-law said this woman (mother inlaw) has to be taken to court because of spoiling the whole imagine of the family.
    2. Yes in Dinka culture a woman should not take responsibility  of girls which are the resources to Dinka culture. Now she has spoiled the girls in the house which she used them as a shop to those people who has money.
    in reply to: McCloud Antonov/ Gregory #361548
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    How lucky I’m to be in your life.  You really change my life. May the God of twin blessed you and I know one day I will fly to where you are. And I will take you to different destination.

    Congrats

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361546
    Thondit
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    Thou I’m no longer interested in her. My estranged wife will remain has my wife. My plans is; I will divorce this woman when his son is grown up.   For now I just give them plastic smile in order to post them on,,,,,,  so that  his son should have knowledge about her mother characters.

    Even if they go heaven  and earth,  they will not win…. Haha 😂

     

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361545
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    😂 😂 😂 How wise you are to go through the conference  which was attended in 1947 juba. Thank you for having go through that meeting in general.

    Besides,  what I mean is that she is not behaving in the appropriate way in the whole family and Tonj great in general.

    They whole Tonj great is a ware of how my mother in-law is behaving in the society. Yes try estranged wife is still my wife because I did not divorced her.  Regardless of her doom plans she is not at the right side because all the big people in the family of my father-in-law are extremely closed to me and behind me.

    The policeman /dj is wasting his own time because they will soon be sue to court.  On a simple note,,,,,,  in our culture there is no woman who is responsible for the children or girls who should be handle in a suitable way.

    Thou she is happy already due to the lost of her husband /my father in-law who passed on,,,,,,  she has no right to.

    People are disheartened about her wrong doing and intentions she is proposing in the family. She has killed the respiratory respect of the family whom the whole greater Tonj,,,,,,  used to help n respect.

    Hence a mother she would have remained as loyal as you.

    Regards.

    Gregory

    in reply to: McCloud Antonov/ Gregory #361540
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    It’s a pleasure for me to be in this forum who has got an intellectual people like Anita,

    Much love to u mommy.

    Greg.

    in reply to: Stuck Everyday #361532
    Thondit
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    Dear NeedAchange,

    As I goes through your constructive statement you had air out here. I would possibly suggest that leaving your boyfriend /husband is the not the solution to that problems. But it would be awesome enough to confront him and sit down with him telling him how much you value your relationship status and him particula. As your name stated that “needAchange” yes you can be a change to someone’s life but doesn’t mean u need to break up. There are no smooth house /relationships in this universe. Probably problems are there like thorn but we have to keep them under pillow. Don’t leave your husband boyfriend,,,,  don’t leave your amazing  relationship.

    May u give things times…..  Don’t rush. Time will heal everything.

    All the best

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #361518
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Sorry for the late response. I was preoccupied with work and I couldn’t able to go on the website to participate. Besides that is great work for bring back my thread to be updating you anytime that thing happened between me and the family of my estranged wife.

    Let me hope that my thread did not touch anyone who is in this forum but it is for my family thing which will never go out of the agenda.

    On the other hand,  the mother in-laws of my estranged wife she has finally given her daughter to one of the police guy who was once my friend,  that I used to help him at the airport.

    This boy was also a deej in all the clubs of juba.

    😂 😂 😂 my mother in-laws was exactly behaving like those who attended the conference in 1947 in juba,  of which her mother and my own father were not yet born..

    They are all celebrating that they finally got the right man in their family.

    They are also happy because the husband who used to stand up with me has gone to heaven. So at the current state they don’t have any fear from anyone who has remained .

    But they still carry a big cross on their neck.

    The elder brother to my father in-law who passed away wanted to divorce the woman with the children.

    He said girls are they resources in South Sudan and we married their mother with our wealth those days now it is us to benefit from her daughters but she is spoiling them.

    I’m more excited and extremely happy to respond to u again and for bring back my thread Anita.

    Thank you so much.

    Cheer.

    Gregory.

     

    in reply to: McCloud Antonov/ Gregory #361516
    Thondit
    Participant

    Wow thank you so much mommy.

    Much appreciation to you and I was so much in love with that thread of mine.

    Congrats for devoting yourself to do that on my behalf.

    God blessed you Anita.

    Thanks for being my backbone always.

    All the best best.

    in reply to: McCloud Antonov/ Gregory #361080
    Thondit
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the information.

    What inappropriate content had I committed of???? Who did this to me?  I was handling my own issues with you and me!!!! Who did I involved to?  We have not talked anything like Politics.  These are relationships issues and that is all. Kindly try to retrieve back my old thread!!  I will not continue with it but I will be checking some other things for future reference.

    Dear Anita,  write to any admin or anyone like Lori,,,,  to check to my old thread.

    I will be really glad if you can put this note into consideration.

    Thanks

    Gregory.

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