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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #364086
    GreGory C
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    Dear Yellow Rose,

    Wow this is more than beautiful,  more than touchingly advise.  I’m just speechless dear with all the nice insightful words you had vividly expressed out for me. Yes she is a kind of a human that doesn’t feel shame among other ladies. Thank you so much for everything you stated. You went beyond my descriptions,,, and hence I hope as you go through the scenario how was it? As you stated that I will be waiting for her hoping she might change her mind to come back for years and years.  The thing is ” I don’t want her again,,,,  I left that woman long time ago,  especially last year 2019. Yes I’m back to my training school it is just due to lock down. By that time,  it was the time for me to glanced an ally at that point in order to support me. Like Anita.

    Yellow Rose, you said maybe there’s  “shame in “me” that could be the reason the woman change her mind to be my wife!!!  Would you mind to elaborate more for me about that sentence.

    I’m a typical African man with radical honesty in my life.  My estranged wife this prostitution was inheritated by her grandma who is currently in Canada due to that game,,,, which is her granddaughter is practicing now in juba street. I have gone through difficulties and a lots of thrones in my lives but I managed them amicably. I’m playing a different role Now as a man but for her case is no longer on my mind. Everything happened for a reason. God created me with purpose, I will do wonders on earth God wishes.

    I came from a very clean family,  with well respected being……  This is how I’m and I believe in God…. Yes you are right thou she come back I won’t be happy with her again. My estranged wife’s aunties , sisters to her own mother ain’t in their home respectively where they are being married.  They both left their husbands,  so the poisoned her to in order to her house. Who cares!!!  I will marriage another kind hearted girl that could make a wife. It is only food that could be shared but not a wife.  Its sound bad when I repeat myself,  this estranged wife of mine doesn’t bother whether she is married or not. What she is yearning for is prostitution and move from man to man.

    As I spoke to you now her biological father passed away in June this year but she doesn’t shows like father is not a lives. She is celebrating for the death of her death. Abusing her father.

    No worries at the moment. I’m fine and I have already fixed out my problem.

    All the best wishes. You are free to send any replies you feel like to be.

    God be with you.

    Gregory

     

     

     

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #364057
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Your advices are well taken and put into consideration as per situation and the length of the case studies by you Anita ,

    I realized that I was living with an emotionally disturbed being mistaken and took for granted in within my agemate. I was an inconsequential engine in their family but since I was being underestimated by my mother in-law with her daughter and my estranged wife,  I have rest everything in peace and their hands as they both wishes it to be.

    In simple token I notice this marriage was not reasonable, calm,  stable individual  could have in his life. I would go and accepted any advice you give to me to be someone in the near future.

    Most of the people are extremely disheartened talking about me on daily basis that this married has changed me to be different Gregory,  due to trauma but “wapi”

    Thou they are tried to dewitch me in so many way in order to be useless as per their heart desires which is a “lie” to them.

    The only person I appreciate in my life is you Anita,  you changed me for sure. You encourage me most often. Posterior to this people are saying: many people disrespect me and lower me down because : it is what I shared with them that they used to get back to bite me,  so now I have limit communication with everyone I know in any ideal issues. (practical)

    Anita,  you nurture me into the right way now. Congratulations for the job you are doing on my thread.

    My best wishes to you.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #364044
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    It has been sometimes without being in touch . I was occupied with so much thing.

    Yeah I’m going to work on what you suggested with me. Besides, my estranged wife’s mother had lost her immediated uncle,,,  brother to her father passed away last week.

    She is again mourning now….  The late uncle curse her and said if you don’t correct yourself from being a bad woman,,,,  and destroying somebody’s daughter you will also follow me sooner.

    Thanks for the work you had been doing to stand up with me as a team.  I love your strong heart.

    God bless you.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362794
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Good afternoon there!

    Its 03:46a.m as I replied you now because your message alert me when I was reading in my room. I really don’t know what we shall do as a young men in South Sudan. Majority of the people have the intention of sleeping with the beautiful girls /women,,,,  which make it difficult for a girl to listen to their parents again because she has got power of getting money somewhere.

    We have a dream of changing things in South Sudan. But mostly since things are still tie up made my estranged wife that I will not get a good money which is wrong.

    I’m confident enough that very soon I will build my own house.

    As you what do you think can be the best solution to this mess up?

    U google the song of slate nation when u get time from your work.

    Thanks for the nice compliment I’m always please your nice words.

    Gregory.

     

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362777
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    It is absolutely terrible here. The prostitution has gone beyond the government control. As I replied this message of yours it’s 9:20pm and young adults are selling themselves at the road side at night.  Some people are extremely disheartened by the lack of money and other are doing it in order to gain popularity from the government officials.

    However,  some of they most beautiful girls /single mothers are also doing it such that the get good money to open up Bontique as their own to brag to theirs ex man. Like my estranged wife who is trying hardly to get money from others men who loots government resources just for their beneficial. Anita,  juba is a hell place to be. It is only God to help us to give u a wife material but majority of them are spoiled.

    They are doing it in order to makes theirs respective mothers happy that my daughter is getting money and they are not lacking anything for your information.

    Yes they are very young girls and mostly 98% are married girls who destroyed theirs houses like my estranged wife.

    Our Government has been brought down by they politician who just need to destroy someone’s house and president imagine.

     

    The young talented musician from northwestern from Tonj called SLATE NATION  sang a very beautiful song from Australia last month called “inu gang”  with president Kiir,,,,  he was interviewed on Thursday by advance radio why did he sang this beautiful song. Look it up there it is trending on media and this boy has been called by president Kiir to visit him to juba.

    The boy sang the song because of prostitution that is going on rampantly and the looting of government materials.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362761
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    It is literally enjoyable due to the mess that had been made by so many girls who are on streets in juba.

    To be honest they spoke out saying it is the pandemic virus which force them to be like lobbying many men around. We discussed so many things on the agenda. Jumping from one place to another can cause you to get HIV/ AIDS ,,,,,,,, However, it is so beautiful sense.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362751
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,,,,

    I had travelled to place without network.

    Well I will think over it after finishing up the men’s conference about ladies like my estranged wife. It is a cul-de-sac and wonderful second thought option which we can resort to it. That is what she is yearning for already.

    Thanks for being on my shoulder to shoulder Anita..

    God blessed you.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362446
    GreGory C
    Participant

    They do everything for the interests of mother in-laws. All in all. They all don’t know what they are doing. Just misleading. I was not happy for opening the topic of my estranged wife again,,,,, yet I really don’t know what he was digging for? I’m too annoyed today with them,,,,  this people behave like a female dog…..

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362444
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Much appreciation mommy. I’m sorry Anita,  that I’m not at my best today…. Really not at good mood. As I was having a flight from Juba to Wau and back to juba today,,,,,  I was given the envelope by one of the Marshall to come and give it to the owner. To my surprise,  it was a guy from the side of my estranged wife who left years back.  I was really annoyed because they are so disrespectful and disgusting people that I don’t want to see them again.

    Anyway they are just hyena who being paranoid and parasites from the mother in law.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362337
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the precious pieces of words. That is away to go. Rome was not built on one day. It was a continuous of work. I kept learning new things always.

    God blessed you Anita….  You have a pure heart that tried to contribute anything you have to.

    A lots of rewards will come back to you.

    Be blessed.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362265
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear my humble CRM,

    my elephant,  my giraffe,  my Lion King…

    Haha 😂 😂 much love to u mommy.

    We live in a society in which mediocrity is the norm. Many people do as little as they go by. I don’t take pride in their work or in who they are. If somebody is watching, they may perform one way, but when nobody is watching they will cut corners and take the easy way out. I always do more than is expected; carry it two miles. I’m a person of excellence. I go above and beyond what’s asked of me. I do more than is expected. ” this means if I’m supposed to be at work at 8a.m. , I show up ten minutes early. I produce more than you have to. God doesn’t reward sloppiness. God rewards excellence.
    In the Old Testament, Abraham sent his servant to a foreign country to find a wife for his son, Isaac. Abraham told the servant that he would know, if he would found the right lady if she offered a drink to both him and camels. The servant reached the city around sunset. A beautiful young lady named Rebekah came out to the well. The servant said, “I’m so thirsty. Would you mind lowering your bucket and getting me a drink.?”
    She said, “not only that, let get some water for your 🐪 camels as well.”
    Here is what’s interesting: After a long day’s walk, a camel can drink thirty gallons of water. This servant had ten camels with him. Think about what Rebekah did. If she had a one-gallon bucket of water, she said in effect, “Yes I’ll not only do what you asked and give you a drink, but I’ll also dip down in this well three hundred more times and give your ten camels to drink. ” Rebekah went way beyond the call of duty. As a result she was chosen to marry Isaac, Who came from the wealthiest family of that time. I doubt that she ever again had to draw three hundred gallons of water.
    God rewards excellence. When you do more than what is required, you will see God’s goodness in new ways.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362241
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    Wow this is so pleasing , unbelievable to me for the first time today to bring a smile in yourself. That meant I have had earn a credit to you now. I was desperated and devastated from the first time I encountered with the issue of marriage. And on addition to that, you tried heaven and earth to put me into a better,  as well as show me a life in front of me in the future. In that moment you keep hardly advising me to take  my time, time is the most important thing on earth.  It would often solve every problem between.

    However, u also correct  me not to used “n” the. Art of work that is in aviation terms (amazingly). Anita,  it’s my duty to bring a smile 😂 😂 and happiness in your face. “The Bible says it is better to hold your tongue, than saying something bad you will ever regret.”    So now I’m absorbed in my life and sober enough. The Bible also studied a woman again…….  I have studied you, so when I noticed anything I wrote and you ain’t happy or smile,,,,,  then I have to switch it off.

    You deserve a golden name,  respect,  honorable desires,  😍 love, a blessing too,  from me Anita ,,,,, thanks for the nice insightful words back to me, my sweet heart Anita,,,, you are my motivator,  my CRM ( Crew Resource Management) meaning to detect any problem before it goes worst.

    If I should called you honey bee, it is too small 😂 😂,  sweet one,  which doesn’t last for 5 minutes,,,,  babe like a child. U deserved this names, my elephant,  my giraffe,  my ostrich,  my Lion King 😂 😂 😂

    You are amazing to me Anita.

    Thanks

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362127
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Correction * if I was a girl then I would have go for you to be my husband,  if you were also a man 😂 😂 😂. I think I would have be pregnant with your child Now 😂 😂. Hope my post will find u in the right mood.

    Waiting to see your amazing replied.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #362126
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    😂 😂 you are also putting  a smile into my face when I just see your post. By the way you are amazing to me. I love the way you praise ME. Congratulations for seeing the good side of how I expressed myself out to you. And on simple token,  I was trying to impressed you , just to try to put u into a good mood. This generation we are in is a confused one,  my post may find you when you are being annoyed somewhere and I have to do my best to bring a smile in yourself.

    However, I love you beyond myself Anita,  and I was a girl  😂 😂 I would have go for you Anita,  to my husband 😂. You are so lovely and caring as well.

    I’m just a simple son  of a farmer who is trying to make thing right. I have never got a good hearted person like you on earth Anita,,, ,,,, u will be my iota at this in my life.

    Amazing Anita, God bless you Anita,  and I love you mommy Anita,,,,,  yes I told u I’m a learner who is ready to learn…..  Thanks sometimes you try to correct my grammar and spelling into conducive one,

    Gregory,,,, Dad’s Son.

     

    in reply to: Love at first sight? #362061
    GreGory C
    Participant

    Dear Angel,

    Thou you are in dilemma of how you will handle this young man who was once in relationship with others of which he stated he knows very well thatrelationships are hurtful in humans life.  Reduce your speed,  go slowly,,,,  take your time first. Put him also on a simple exams not written exam but you just have to test him to see how serious he is.

    On other hand,  God knows where you will go and who will marry you when you finish your studies. You are a green woman about where you will go in future. Treat him with total cares. Don’t let be curse. He is too serious with you now. Make him important too that will define him the role you are doing.

    My advice is,  don’t leave your amazing boyfriend,,,,,  go for him and stay together in future. Also seek God for more blessings in this generation we are in. Sometimes we are too confused.

    I wish to see you happy.

    Gregory.

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