Hello Anita,

How have you been doing?

I was caught up by the serious sickness that took almost two weeks in my body , so now I’m back to healthy state.

Thanks.

Greg. Thondit’s dad. A proud father.

Dear Anita,

How are you doing today?

Sorry I had a long flight today. I did get time to respond you back.  Men work harder to bring the food on the table.  The same hard work my estranged wife left me in, never inclined at all.  We will see who will be who in the future.

Though sometimes, Isn’t it funny how the people that hurt you the most, tend to react a different way when the table gets turned?. There’s a popular saying that goes “If you can’t eat it, then don’t serve it”. Don’t hurt someone and expect them to worship the ground you walk on because the world certainly doesn’t revolve around you. Just imagine sometimes I don’t like or a fun of revenge in my life. I got that sympathy to treated once that hurt me. I leave everything to God himself to judge it.

Gregory.

Dear Anita.

Thanks for the soft reply.  I wish you happy all the times.

I never regret being put at the hard side but its always gave me a strength.

I’m requesting you to climb to fly level 080ft higher but unfortunately you are descending to fly level 100ft I see and hear request report to 5miles Emami 🙉😆😆🤔

With this be blessed.

Greg.

Dear Anita,

Thanks for your input.  Every step you shared with me give me courage and learn more.  Yes, if there’s any possibility where I could help to transform the young couples I’m ready to offered my ideas. As well as my wife will definitely play her role to give best to their opposite sex.  I have learnt a lots from so many elders how take cares of your wife and it is a collective ideas from well mannered parents.

I love the well mannered and educated Captains of Aviation pilots.

The success of a child is the blessing from both parents. Most of they children don’t acknowledged this ideas. My mom used to prayed for us and she stated I feels Gregory,  will one day fly people with his aircraft and Now I do!!

Its important to every child to have a blessing from both parents.. one day When people ask Capt Maranga, what he does for a living, he replies “I fly airplanes and write about them. He has so many books he wrote like “License to Fly”. And I’m one of the most fortunate people in the world to have been able to make a career of doing what I love.” Capt Peter maranga,  has been a pilot for more than  45 years, an aviation writer for more than 40 and has been lucky enough to get to fly just about every type of personal and business airplane in production from the 1950s onward. He was on the Flying Magazine staff for 25 years and editor-in-chief for 20 of those years. He holds several business jet type ratings  and he has been flying B787,  B747,  B763, B777, direct to New York, and  has logged more than 60,000 hours. they instructor retired last year from flying and he has remained as an aviation industry chief- pilots. Captain Maranga,  was the God fearing pilot, he has flow with his son Emmanuel Several occasions.  He was the first person who introduced me in flying school. He trained me. He advised me,  handle this little bird called airplane like handling a married woman,  when u don’t treated her well she becomes very stubborn. An aircraft is as the same as a woman. When u don’t give attention, he tell you wonders.

I love and give respect to any ladies in the world.

God bless you Anita.

Greg

Dear Anita,

Thanks for sharing every steps of the story here. You an uncomparable woman.

Humans are  unique in that we’re the only animals that can conceptualize and think about ourselves abstractly.  Dogs don’t sit around and worry about their career. Cats don’t think about their past mistakes or wonder what would have happen if they’d done something differently.  Monkeys don’t argue over future possibilities,  just as fish don’t sit around wondering if other fish would like them more if they had longer fins.
As humans,  we’re blessed with ability to Imagine ourselves in hypothetical situations, to contemplate both the past and the future, to Imagine other realities or situations where things might be different.

My wife is one of those women who spend a lot of time in front of the mirror.  She loves to look amazing,  and I love fir her to look amazing too (obviously).
Nights be4 we go out, she comes out of the bathroom after an hour- long makeup / hair/clothes/whatever- women- do – in- there session and asks me how she looks. She’s usually gorgeous.  Every once in a while, though,  she looks bad. Maybe she tried to do something new with her hair.

Men stereotypically lie in this situation to make their gf/wives happy.  But I don’t. why? Because honesty in my relationship is more important to me than feeling good all the time.  The last person I should ever to censor myself with is the woman I love.

Fortunately,  I’m married to a woman who agrees and is willing to hear my uncensored thoughts.   She calls me out on my bullshit too, of course,  which is one of the most important traits she offers me as a partner. Sometimes we had little misunderstanding,  little disagreement and agree.

Without conflict,  there can be no trust.  Conflict exists to show us who is there for us unconditionally and who is just there for the benefits.  No one trusts a yes- man.

I step from rock to rock, climbing steadily,  leg muscles stretching and aching.  But at least I got the sober woman to be with. The sky gets wide and deep when u encounter with wrong heartless one.

There’s a saying in Portuguese: Ele  dobra  o cabo  da Boa Esperança.  It means,  ” He’s rounding the Cape of Good  Hope.” Ironically,  it means that the person’s life is in its final phase,  that he’s incapable accomplishing anything more
Anita,  in life 50% of the time things don’t your ways and when they don’t,  don’t get work up (big strength in life).

I will continue to teach others men to be good father and caring husband.

God bless you.

Greg

Dear Anita,

What a Bombastic phenomenon of the phrase. It has required an additional amount of patience giving due time to understand further. I have read it and understood it.

This is especially extremely extraordinarily words to give.  You are as brilliant as – Alshaba – terrorists are very wiser people who think extra mile than the normal people.

Congratulation Anita,  you have really read  ” books” and I wanted to be a surprise small photocopy of Anita in South Sudan.  My hands up.

I think I am a good judge of character. I usually have a quick gut instinct about others and I think I generally make wise decisions about the people I surround myself with.

Anita,  thanks very well described literature with a sense of reasoning. Its beyond and clearer.

Our keenest generations especially within South Sudan are different perpetrated earth’s Animals in the history.

Their Google history is unsafe.  Both are essential in making most out of their lives.

The way you dress and the way speak are accurate representation of how you view yourself.

Our generation adapted a system of East Africa – very Immoral generations .

When you dress in jeans all the time,  to me, that represents that u are down to earth.  If you dress   up even when you are at work,  that represents that you feel important and you have a statement to make. Dressing down in a sweat pants and tee – shirts  represent comfort in any given situation.

Behind every system of actions are systems of beliefs.  The systems of a democracy is founded on beliefs like freedom,  majority rule, and social equality.

Once your pride gets involved, you will fight tooth and nail to maintain your habits.

Simple equation that make a powerful state Behavior a function of the person in their environment. I.e South Sudan 
Or B = f(P, E) .

Every living being has its own methods for sensing and understanding the world.
Eagles  have remarkable long distance vision.
Snakes  can smell by ” tasting  the air ”  with their highly sensitive tongues.
Sharks can detect some amount of electricity and vibration in the water caused by nearby fish.  Even bacteria have chemoreceptors – tiny sensory cells that allow them to detect toxic chemicals in the environment. 

In humans,  perception is detected by the sensory nervous system.We perceive the world through sigh, sound,  smell,  touch  and taste,  but we also have other ways of sensing stimuli .

So here is the dealt –  George Orwell said that to see what’s in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle.

Well, the solution to our stress and anxiety is right there in front of our noses,  and we are too busy watching porn and advertisements for ab machines that doesn’t work,  wondering. Our girls are introvert….. they don’t values marriage nowadays.  With this let me put u into this and you will concur with me. 

In South Sudan, and Dinka culture in particular, men pay a lot of cows in order to marry. Take an example the picture you see above again, 

I have extremely suffered again to pay a dowries of  195 head of cattles. Which is 200 cows again.

But the worst part of it,  girls still go for their ex bf not her but some whom I even know.

And they says – some men have to be check before marriage us? Who can check who? The one who paid cows to be checked or the one whose cows are paid for to be owned?

And they says we don’t cares!! Why do they allow an innocent cow to be slaughtered during the final agreement of both negotiators?  It is not to beautifying blood but oath to show this girl is no longer among others girls on the streets again but now a married woman.

who don’t mind about the originality of anything he/she buys? If in your culture you don’t pay cows and money the way we do, then you are free to marry any prostitute.

virginity is not stupidity. It is stupidity from people who have high appetite for sex and who think that sex is a basic needs.

Anyway, anybody is entitled to his/her rights to do what you likes but they should know there’s tomorrow and a different of one who paid cows and who is not.

Happiness is contagious,  so if you are happy, your child will be happy with you.

So stay happy and let your child see that despite various problems that life throws at him when he grows older, he can always find a reason to be happy. Raising a child to be a responsible young person and having a happy mindset is not easy.

The right kind of feedback   interaction,  and moderate guidance can help you make your child grow up to be a happy individual. Am I clear Anita,? Am I  saying facts to be heard and see? 

And this I’m a real icon man who love one woman,  who believed ladies are the same everywhere. Who think when you mould the woman u have , treating her nicely,  feeding her , dressing her , she definitely produces for you the handsome and beautiful babies u want in your heart.

I know it will require time to settle down first and through it again Anita.

Be blessed.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Wow !! Everything of you is wow.

And its also give me a favor to smile.

She will be continuing making her first priority, but I’m fearing the way i praise her, will make me  the victim of the failure of the first married….I  Think out of the box dear… praising her is every gentleman pleasure due to blood but it might be obstacle if you i don’t double check all angles .

What  do you think?

Greg.

Dear Anita,

Thanks for the comparison. Both of my sons look aligned. I have had got a strong DNA. Appreciated you.

It is simple for every person to fall down and when you have the ability to wake up and see , when you went wrong and make it wonderful.  My new woman as quite as mouse….. she is very understanding lady I have ever met. She is a very independent and internally motivated person. She is not  been financially independent but since she started college of so called “Love” , (she  graduated with honesty & hope for betterment of our relationship) and I feel that it has made me strong, but gracious and humble too.

Imaginative of her saying every situation need to be handle with cares and put LOVE first to solve the problems… with that u will be able to walk in other person’s life too.

On the other hand much appreciation for the great deeds you devoted to pouring a lots of advices to come back into my senses.

Our culture today is obsessively focused on unrealistically positive expectations. Be happier,  Be healthier,  Be the best, better than the rest. Be smarter,  faster,  richer,  Sexier,  more popular,  more productive,  more envied,  and more attractive,  more admired.  Be perfect and amazing.

I’m happy with my faith and hope , I will go slowly like one fly the helicopter to my wonderful fulfilling destination.

And as an professional Aviator,  Safety first,,,

Get back to Anita,  when I’m from my intended destination.

With this God bless you Anita.

Thanks.

Greg.