Hello Dear Anita,

Wow this is amazing and adorable advice just for free!  You truly deserve to be here in this forum. Anita , I appreciate your input into this matter that been terrible .

My heart is a bit sober now,  through your shining advice the brought back my senses and my heart into it center . Thanks for the advice we have shared . Wider than the ocean , bigger than the sky you are really good to be here to deal with such amicably.

I have known a million people Anita , but ever one like you. Many of my friends are special but I still don’t have a clue.  How you got to be so wonderful Anita,  the world’s most perfect mother of such a situation. You have always loved to helped people of such a prevailing condition .

You truly sense a major disconnect between me and my estrange wife. After dealing how the situation is ! Or based on how you studied her with her character.

She is absolutely too prideful , too arrogant,  too bleaching…..  I told her to swallow her pride but still.  You actually definitely hit the nail on it.  She is a master price,  a materialistic girl with her mother.

I thought that nothing good,  come out of a good place.  That is why I have been running after her. Trees of patience of fruits are bitter. I thought she would change be a better one.  How you describe her exactly suit with her. Her heart is hard and closed pretending to be open minded humans but wapi. I owe my change of loving her towards her now.

I would say that marrying of this girl has significant changed my way of thinking , my view of the world and has afforded me the opportunity to realize my potential and how I will study the girl when I have the interest of dating others in the future.   Either way the real cause can be unearthed through her mother whom they have open communication.  We have done a lots of nonsense confrontation discussion on the way of to be a good woman but in vain.   She is trying to go for a man who is having a lots of  money in order to build a house for her mother according to what she said.

Yes it true,  there are no angels in this world and every man or woman has some shortcomings here and there.  There are women  I know out there  who had a dirty past but  now they are happy but still fake. She has Crucify me and my plan! !! Thinking that by leaving me she will find that perfect person than me. I thought she will join me and makes a progress of our life  ,because only two people can mould each other to their own model of perfection and stand hand in hand through the thick and thin.

She is now on a deep pain too!  Due to missing his son! !!

Anita my heart is melting with your advice

Thanks my dear.

You definitely stood by my side.

You are now my mother.

Since I lost my mother in 2013 the year of my High school.

All the best  Anita.

Gregory

Hello  Anita ,

Thanks for the nice words.  I was trying to digest all the words you put on the forum here.  Truly beautiful one are not yet born. I am gonna leave her in peace. Since her mother is consistently at her. Using her as a shop then I am done  now.

I have done a lots even God will not blame me or punish me in either way.

If she has not admired to be a woman in the house then I can’t force the horse to drink.

I tried to run after her for years and she is not seeing literally and logically and realistically.

I know she some days regret and I don’t think she will ever stay in one man.

Thanks Anita  God blessed you dear.

Gregory.

The time when we were at honey moon !we really stayed  together well as a husband and wife.

This was I really feels satisfied all the time though I had not taken anything to eat.

The Time we went to Court I refused to divorce her because I know one day she will come back for her son.  That was the reason .

Again she was Frank that her father is not taking care of her mother and sibling.

She said I will leave your house because of that.

I may not be perfect ? but I keep trying.  No body is perfect all the time . My family shack Mr because of my bad wife . But I still insist on her.   I do understand that there are a lots of GIRLS outside there who are beautiful then her but I can’t see this point.  Too much film is going on in my memory.  We dated for 7 good years. if my mother in-laws  was not behind my wife then she was gonna be the best woman that I need on earth.  If she accept to stay with me without wrong doing , then I was going to be the happiest man on earth . I got the most beautiful woman in my life and I think that could be the reason she had disturbed me.

When it come to SEX I am perfect , I do the way she need. Or her expectations other satisfaction . I promise her some years  back before thing went to south,  that  u will be my best friend up to next generation . .. My best friend,  my mommy , my sister , my everything !!!! God should give you someone who give you love in return.  Love is a two ways Traffic , not one way traffic.  The love had persists  at my side. No more love at her side.  Due to the fact that my mother in-laws is behind her daughter. I am working now and before we have grudges I used to gave them some dollars I mean my mother in-laws. When I was still with my wife.  i took my son from them knowing that my wife will follow his son Agoth Thondit (son) .

Struck me God and Anita.

Help McCloud Antonov.

I got this Nick name when I was in my flying school , the time I took the first position and my Captain those name.

Regard

Gregory!

Hello  Dear Anita,

As I received a call from my father in-law two hour ago to joint him at the Court where my mother in-laws and my wife was! !! Reaching on the  way he call me over the phone and said go back,  that don’t come he will handle the case alone with his wife and daughter. The Judge said I am not agreeing with you by divorcing her from her son. The girl (wife ) also said I want to go back to my son.

I will tell you more when you wake up later.

All the best.

McCloud Antonov

Anita,  you are a special person to be in my life.  At least you contributed a lots. You really gave me strength. You are like my instructor that I had met when I was in my flying school. I wonder what kind of a man will she need this so called  Ayong,  the mother of my son.  The name itself is very bad my dear.  Its mean to mistreated someone. What I hate most is time wasted from the time I paid the dowries until now and no good outcome. My fellow pilots students completed last year and I think she has made me to go back to square one again.

Behind all is these is my mother in-laws she is a woman who distort my house with a lots of witchcraft things.

My mother in-laws is also in a horrible hot soul now because my father in-law said if you had taken responsibility from me then don’t even both to called me and I will not dare to pay a single  coin to you.

Since the husband rejected her that is why she is trying prove to us that she has power but she is lying to herself.  Thanks Anita   with all the nice words you vividly  expressed for me.

I still love ❤️ her so much because of my son. Yesterday she called one of her uncle who is working in her dad’s office that she wanted to go back to where her son is.  But her father said I’m fade up of this girl who spoiled my name for doing bad things for years.

My father in-laws is divorcing his wife today too! With all the children and the woman doesn’t know what we had planned together.

TI would like to get ways of bring together if u had an ideas.

My twin brother hated me because of  bad behavior of my wife.  She love to have sex outside : and moreover I don’t cheated her.  I don’t drink and she do! !!! I still say she is the mother son but all in hell. Now I had acknowledged her bad behavior. Regardless of what she had been doing in the darkness everything is now being revealed.

Thanks Anita for the take you had taken to understand my post.  May God bless you dear. I do say there are no holy angles on earth,  people do dirty thing just to makes lives better.

My best wishes to you.

Wow my Dear Anita,

Thanks for the quick response or reply. U are a quick understanding person that I had ever met on this website .

You are so precious and generous Anita , I wish you  a doctor ? ! Because you really know how to dig out the sickness or the route cause that is in a person or a patient . How nice and hospital you are Anita.

YS my boy is with me.  I took him to Kenya last week during Easter.

He is 2years and half. Her mother Cry for 4 consecutive days that she needs his son back.

In our culture when you divorced a woman then be ready for your son because he will be a questioning you that why did you divorce my mom.

That what I don’t want Anita for my son to ask me. !!! Ever since I was young I had been praying not to be separated with my wife neither my son…..  I used to say even up to now that I want to be a good father and a caring husband to my wife.

But to some circumstance my wife let me down. Yes ✔️ the court chase her out once and say I don’t want this case in my office since your dad is against your will!  The judge told if you listen to your father then go to other judges that you thinks will support your ideas but I don’t think so.

Her mother is the one on her side.

However , we are still going again tomorrow to court for the final decision I have taken.