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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293141
    Thondit
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    I mean my mother in-laws with her daughter (my estrange wife), ,, they just give juice only.  Until my son becomes addicted with juice.

    What could be the good  diet for a such baby ?

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293083
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    Hello Anita,

    Thanks once again.  Reading your message its give me the momentum to deal with  the situation.

    Hey Anita , wow what amazing words,  yes I don’t bother to asked her where she is!  Nor texting her.  I had completely switched my mind off . My son is staying with the daughter of my uncle , the brother to my own father.

    I do communicate with him every day and he is asking me Baba,  when are you coming to see me!. ? I promise to buy for him a bicycle when I come to Kenya.

    These people where not feeding my son well,  they just give juice all the time,  he even when he wake up at night he could ask Juice.

    Now he is enjoying life in Kenya.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293071
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank so much , God is in control and he had seen my struggles for so long.  Besides my ears are deaf now from those people who back bite me , concerning my wife.  She is also abusing me somewhere from other people.  She is absolutely talking negatively on me , that I am the one who was the cause of our misunderstanding of our marriage.

    How did I went wrong here Anita , based on how you had seen the scenario of the story.

    Ati,  they where walking together with her mother and they found one of my mine friend from his work place and he is a Ugandan ??  , telling my friend,  her father and they  whole relatives hated them and they are being chuck to be visited cause of me.  A friend of mine (Ntge)  call me this evening and told me their conversation. However , she is saying if I want her back then I should  return her son Chris Agoth Gregory , from Nairobi – Kenya and give her and we sit down and sort out the case.

    My answer was/is I will not be fooled to be bring my son back to such people whose their heart is hard and closed.

    Anita,  your help is needed Again on this Agenda.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293073
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank so much , God is in control and he had seen my struggles for so long.  Besides my ears are deaf now from those people who back bite me , concerning my wife.  She is also abusing me somewhere from other people.  She is absolutely talking negatively on me , that I am the one who was the cause of our misunderstanding of our marriage.

    How did I went wrong here Anita , based on how you had seen the scenario of the story.

    Ati,  they where walking together with her mother and they found one of my mine friend from his work place and he is a Ugandan ??  , telling my friend,  her father and they  whole relatives hated them and they are being chuck to be visited cause of me.  A friend of mine (Ntge)  call me this evening and told me their conversation. However , she is saying if I want her back then I should  return her son Chris Agoth Gregory , from Nairobi – Kenya and give her and we sit down and sort out the case.

    My answer was/is I will not be fooled to be bring my son back to such people whose their heart is hard and closed.

    Anita,  your help is needed Again on this Agenda.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292937
    Thondit
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    The good news is , I have got scholarship with our government of south  Sudan,  Civil Aviation, ,,,, I am leaving in a month of July for  my CPL (Commercial Pilot License)  to go n complete it.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292935
    Thondit
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    I mean economic crisis in our country . Yes according to your question above,  I wanted her to be my future but things fall apart so she has to let her go to where her heart is! Beautiful girls are problematic,  I approve now.  Our English teacher used to tell us such a story and I have now seen it without being told to!

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292927
    Thondit
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    Dear Jay Jay!

    Thanks for your amazing advice Sir! !! This woman my first choice in my life  and posterior to that we both felt in love completely.

    Disappointment came in after  we had married . Also we had the economic in our country South Sudan – Juba,  its making all you ladies to ran away from their own respective husbands, ,, , and to hotels with those who are having money . Thanks my dear.  My mind is almost resettling now and focus for my beloved son Chris Agoth Gregory.

    My worries is one thing,  if he becomes like her mother the time he becomes a man, ,,, and decides to leave my shoes….. And follow her mother ‘s shoes.

    in reply to: Ex reached out after almost two years #292921
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    Dear Connie ,

    Thank for being optimistic and open to your man! My advice is go all out !!!! Accept each again and try to fixed things together and filed the rest under the pillow.  Try to forget the past and concentrate with your amazing couple ,,,,, , no smooth relationship without any quarrel . Go with your amazing man. Thanks  hello are you there ??

    in reply to: Angry sister #292919
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    Anita,  thank you so much my dear.

    You are Frank to tell her the truth . Its bad for such a girl to involve herself into somebody ‘s wife. That girl next-door. If you was in the position of your sister’s husband and someone did the same thing for you , how would you feel ? ????

    in reply to: Angry sister #292811
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    That-girl-nextdoor,

    I would like to tell you some hint,

    Salt and pepper are completely different,  their and color,  taste  but they always seem together. Your sister is your sister but being married , so there is different now! !! You have been trying to convincing your friend in order to deal with your sister? ?? ?? That was your intention and the husband of your sister found it out! !  Can you try to distant yourself from such crappy.  It doesn’t makes any impact.

    in reply to: Help. I recently got back in touch with an ex flame. #292639
    Thondit
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    Hey Oj,

    As Mark! The real point we where supposed to say or ask you to!

    Can you please put us on board of what you was trying to be help???? How did you hurt her? And what pain did you put her in????

    Eplain it in detail to us???  What where the do’s and the don’t before in your relationship???? Put yourself into cold lake water and feed us

    Greg.

    Thondit
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    Dear Yonatan.

    I feels so pity for you my dear. Fill your heart with courage and be strong ? . Women are devils.  In such a case did you try to sit down and iron out your grudges that was started in the process of your wedding.

    I am just speechless of what ladies do of sudden.

    I do understand your pain . I am also in such fields as well. All the best.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292267
    Thondit
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    Yes I strongly Agree with you Anita . you are welcome. Every since we are separated she has not thought of calling me .Or  text me. So no need to run after who doesn’t want you to be part of her life.

    Thanks so much Anita , and however ,  I am not the only one who is desperately disappointed , I have read so many articles on this forum . I am not in a pain a lone.. Thanks God that we are many.  We had shared with words together.

    Thank you Anita.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292151
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank you so much for your support of advises.

    Here we were trying to share ideas of how I can deal with this.

    I am not in a position of calling her to come back. Just that you told me to go to her and tell her,  your son Chris Agoth Gregory,  love u and I love you too.  So both of us love you a lots. In this simple token , Ayong,  is complicated woman to be handle or controlled.  At least if she was a person who can stand in her words and respect herself of being abuse by her fellow women then the better.  Otherwise I can climb up the trees that has no branches. Nevertheless , my heart is now fully settled so no more worries.

    My advice to people who might have read my article ,,,,,,, never give all your trust to any girl who is too beautiful.  If you,  then you have hang yourself on the daylight.

    At least you trust the average girl,  but beautiful girls are problematic and bogus.! !! !

    My big appreciation goes to ANITA. She is a propeller to everyone who is having a problem. She is ready to sacrifice her time to advise you and encourage you what to do next.

    Anita,  God,  created you in a very unique way. I try to such any word in the dictionary to describe you but I couldn’t find it !! !  May I do more research.

    In my field of Piloting , when you do something to the best the called it “WORK OF ART” thanks a lots Anita ,,,,

    Regards

    Gregory Chan

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #292069
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita ,

    Thanks a lots dear friend . I am so precious .

    Ythe message is,

     

    Dear Ayong,  good morning.  I understand we have got difficult times to understand ourselves due to the fact that we , are being tempted by the devil.

    If the world is being full of devil , to deal with people who were be together from the day one. The painful thing on earth is to leave your own innocence son.

    Kindly file everything that upsets you on me under the pillow . And u promise u you will never leave your son and go for another man.  Your door is open anytime you wish to see or come back for your.      You are free to.

    Anita , kindly correct me the phrase of the message .

    Thank you for your cooperation and great hospitality.

    Gregory 

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