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  • in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294231
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Hope you are breathing well.  I have digested all your input in my tough marriage and fortunately , I found myself back to senses.

    I realized that as marriage row/normal role ; when a woman begins to cheats on her husband , then she is planning to divorce and wishing her husband to die,  because she has got another man,  she slept with.

    If all the characters of the girls where shown on the TV SHOW , then people could have not married.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294145
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes my estrange wife is also in south Sudan here. We are all in juba…. S. Sudan. Both of us are from the same state or province. The difference is ; she grows up in Khartoum,  Sudan, and I grow up in Uganda and Kenya,  plus South Africa as well as Poland. These are they countries I passed through when I was doing my piloting Training.

    I am trying to work extra hard,  to achieve my goal and get a better life and I think beautiful one , which is more than her will come automatically.

    I have a lots of dreams to do. I think of my only love Son Agoth Gregory , most often.

    Once again thanks Anita.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #294055
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita, 

    Yes she is not ready to learnt more as you stated. As per the we where both in Uganda , (studies )there.  She has never be in the best school like I did.

    She does not like the School that has too much restrictions with rule and regulations. She only love the school that has freedom for to be going out at any time.

    She could attend 5 school in a year. She was given a name ; school walker . She doesn’t care about her performance at the end of the terms when the students are going back home with their reports cards.

    I tried to teach her a lot of things but difficult to concentrate or focus.  She only love the place where there are people who love music and free to move.

    We are all from the same place, ,,,, we shall be seeing each other.

    Thanks Anita.

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293749
    Thondit
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    Wow,  this is amazing.

    With due respect I didn’t know that . ..

    I wish my wife could know this website,  to read all this.

    If she was a somebody who bother and eager to learnt more she would used this most often .

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293743
    Thondit
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    Haaaahaaa I am a golden dust in South Sudan,  I didn’t know.  But now I have known.  Noticed.

    I am always honest person even my wife know in her blood. She once time told me not cheat on her and I agree ✅ with her words.

    I have never done anything like lobbying with other girls.

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293725
    Thondit
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    if you were in South Sudan Anita,  I would have give you a gift.  Just for appreciation because in this small community called Tinybuddha , you work tirelessly to advice and respond anyone who is in messed relationships or any other .  To find people like you , is like looking for a golden dust .

    Big up dear. Keep climbing the ladder of success.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293717
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    You are so  fantastic Anita .

    You are welcome  dear,  either way,  you are Aldo kind . If God , could ask me what I can do for you , then I would tell him to give you a bundles of happiness Anita! !! Just to see you happy all the time.

    I am good at sweet talking girls when it come to dating ?,  but I don’t go a long with girls who are gold digger and who don’t plans for their future.  I don’t fall in love easily.  I do control my emotions as Gregory .

    Ladies are devils and hard to be control

     

    My wife was hard to be handled when were still dating and I guess that is where I makes a mistake.  I never knew this woman was gonna change to be rebels . I was indeed love to the last of my iota !!!!But now things turn to heck.

    Agoth,  will be happy again to his beloved father Gregory ,,,,, I am proud of this young Pilot Agoth,

    In the memory of your name thanks

     

    Gregory.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293709
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita ,

    Thanks , dear mom,  my best friend !! !!

    You will  always  be my best friend up to next generation. If people meet on the other side of the earth , then you will be there for me to support me,  encourage , empower me and guide me about the inbound (incoming problems ) that my wife may be planning with her devil mother.

    You totally stood with me in this dark time of mine

    .  I always question myself what I could do to a person like Anita ???  I love your hospitality.  You are so precious Anita.

    Back to your ⁉️ YES,  she knows that my son Agoth , is in Kenya,  but she doesn’t know where the boy is!!! ! And however , she has never step in , into Kenya soil.

    So she is just lying to herself , that she will go where the baby is !

    So worry less Anita,  I know I will control my son from these hopeless people who failed for their betterment of their lives.

    They are totally confused.

    Thanks Anita .

    Gregory

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293621
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    With the help God,  I will take care of  him more than anything.  He is the only thing in my mind now.  God,  love people who love themselves.

    I want to show him the love that he really  needs on earth.  Her mother , tells hers friends that I do mistreated her and then she decided to go to their home.  She said she will look for the baby where he is! !

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293593
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Thanks for the quick reply.

    My son Agoth,  will started his baby class next year. To distance this boy from her mother , than he will be a good person in future .

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293373
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    Yeah its true.  I don’t what she will  use again . And another thing,  I don’t thing whether  I will marriage again  Anita,  my heart is out from ladies . I think my only Son Agoth,  is enough for me.  I will only focus how to educate him and myself , so that we fly together as a father and a son.

    That is my first priority that I am targeting now.  Marriage has a lots of consequences and disgusting , as well as disadvantages , and disappointment.  Where on earth , you dated a girl for quite number of decades and unfortunately become a bimbos at the end .

    Imy fear is only one thing,  some may same I am a failure if i don’t marry again , but I am not.  Agoth,  is enough for me now  Anita , I have a lots of things to do with my Son.

    I owe you for more explanations if you want to ask anything , I will be there to respond to you.

    Gregory .

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293349
    Thondit
    Participant

    Another News; is that.  The Governor of Jubek state , Mr.  Augustino  Jadalla,  declared and banned all the night clubs and hotels to stop those young girls and single mothers who are practicing prostitution in hotels.

    He warned and each every hotels has 3 security personnel to see those who will come with girls or women.  He says if any couples come to the hotels let them presented the marriage certificate.

    Without marriage certificate then they must both go to jail.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293345
    Thondit
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    Thanks Anita,

    For the quick response and understanding.

    So my son has to be there in Kenya and I will be there for him to support him as a good father . I love my son , he is my everything and my amazing one and perhaps , he is the only oil of my heart.

    He will one day do for me the best thing as the father. And I do believe that he will not be like mother and grandmother. 150 cows will not be a lose when I seen my son Agoth.

    Ayong,  came on Thursday of last week near by market just moving and she found one of the guy who is staying with me , telling that man ; u see me I am growing fat.  And when I arrive in the evening from work  , he told that your wife came here during the day time.

    I couldn’t bother to respond any of questions .

    She is totally expired kalas. She will soon be rejected by those players.

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293303
    Thondit
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    Dear Anita,

    How are you doing ?

    Ever since we were having misunderstanding between me and my estrange wife plus my mother in-laws , and on top of that they were also refusing to give me my son neither to go and visit him with them.  They *could * tell me,  we don’t want you to see you stepping into into our fenced.  While they have my son. Whenever I try to insist and get in by myself without their permission,  they  immediately grabbed my son when he is playing inside the fence and go inside the house ,to hide my son from me.

    I tried my best to respect them and give them a time for about 7 months without going to see my boy nor call them over the phone.

    I t came into my mind that if I leave my son for them to raise him up they will soon brain wash him and later on , be will have issue with me.

    My mother in-laws was the one rejecting me to see my son and she is letting her daughter go out to go look for the money in the hotels with those men who have money.  Later on she come and give her mother money.  On top of that , they brag a lots , my mother in-laws has her mother in Canada and she is the one sending them money .

    My father in-laws is the richest man and he has declared that I don’t want this woman who I had married some years ago and now when her daughter is being married by the young Pilot , they decided to spoil everything.  Now he has spent 3 years without stepping into the house where they are!

    He has also refused to support them.

    He was the very best friend of mine who decided to give me my son.

    Where I live here has no any relatives and my mother passed away 6 years ago when I was finishing my High school in Uganda.

    So no body I can give to my son and take cares of him while I go for work. So that was the reason I took him to Kenya.

    Once again if I let my son stay with me , her mother will steal him when I am at work.

    Thank you for the nice question Anita..

    Greg

    in reply to: STRUGGLE MARRIAGE AND PAINFUL. #293241
    Thondit
    Participant

    Hey Anita, 

    My son is doing great now!  I am really taking cares of him most often , when the young who is staying with him hello me on phone and asked me how I am doing; I just ask her straight if the money is over let me know. If there is any problem let me know as well.

    Gregory

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