May 14, 2019 at 9:51 am #293711
You are very kind to refer to me as mom. I am touched, thank you!
I am glad she doesn’t know where Agoth is, other than him being in Kenya. Make sure you keep it a secret from anyone and everyone you know who may somehow give her that information!
“I know I will control my son from these hopeless people who failed for their betterment of their lives. They are totally confused”-
– keep your clarity of mind. Think what makes sense, what is logical, practical and of good value. You will have a huge advantage this way over those who are totally confused.
And again, thank you so much for your kind words, they bring a smile to my face.
anitaMay 14, 2019 at 10:39 am #293717
You are so fantastic Anita .
You are welcome dear, either way, you are Aldo kind . If God , could ask me what I can do for you , then I would tell him to give you a bundles of happiness Anita! !! Just to see you happy all the time.
I am good at sweet talking girls when it come to dating ?, but I don’t go a long with girls who are gold digger and who don’t plans for their future. I don’t fall in love easily. I do control my emotions as Gregory .
Ladies are devils and hard to be control
My wife was hard to be handled when were still dating and I guess that is where I makes a mistake. I never knew this woman was gonna change to be rebels . I was indeed love to the last of my iota !!!!But now things turn to heck.
Agoth, will be happy again to his beloved father Gregory ,,,,, I am proud of this young Pilot Agoth,
In the memory of your name thanks
Gregory.May 14, 2019 at 10:53 am #293725
if you were in South Sudan Anita, I would have give you a gift. Just for appreciation because in this small community called Tinybuddha , you work tirelessly to advice and respond anyone who is in messed relationships or any other . To find people like you , is like looking for a golden dust .
Big up dear. Keep climbing the ladder of success.May 14, 2019 at 11:02 am #293733
But you already gave me a gift. Before I read your last post about a gift, I copied the words you wrote to me in the last post on page 4, where you referred to me as mom. I copied it so I have a record of it, so I can read it in the future. You are very kind, you are, Gregory.
You are golden dust too, golden dust in South Sudan.
anitaMay 14, 2019 at 11:12 am #293743
Haaaahaaa I am a golden dust in South Sudan, I didn’t know. But now I have known. Noticed.
I am always honest person even my wife know in her blood. She once time told me not cheat on her and I agree ✅ with her words.
I have never done anything like lobbying with other girls.
GregoryMay 14, 2019 at 11:17 am #293745
I am glad you now know and noticed, that you are indeed golden dust in South Sudan. A touch of this golden dust is all over the world now because people reading your words here are from all over the world: Asia, Africa, Europe, America, Australia.
anitaMay 14, 2019 at 11:52 am #293749
Wow, this is amazing.
With due respect I didn’t know that . ..
I wish my wife could know this website, to read all this.
If she was a somebody who bother and eager to learnt more she would used this most often .
Gregory.May 14, 2019 at 12:31 pm #293751
“If she was a somebody who bother and eager to learnt more”- but she isn’t, is she?
Not all people on this website are eager to learn more. Children are eager to learn more but many stop wanting to learn more when they get discouraged by what they do learn, they close their eyes and don’t want to see more.
anitaMay 16, 2019 at 1:09 am #294055
Yes she is not ready to learnt more as you stated. As per the we where both in Uganda , (studies )there. She has never be in the best school like I did.
She does not like the School that has too much restrictions with rule and regulations. She only love the school that has freedom for to be going out at any time.
She could attend 5 school in a year. She was given a name ; school walker . She doesn’t care about her performance at the end of the terms when the students are going back home with their reports cards.
I tried to teach her a lot of things but difficult to concentrate or focus. She only love the place where there are people who love music and free to move.
We are all from the same place, ,,,, we shall be seeing each other.
Gregory.May 16, 2019 at 8:58 am #294125
“I tried to teach her a lot of things”- she did a lot of learning before she ever met you, when she was a child. If her mother taught her certain things, she learned those things early. If what you tried to teach her were things different than what her mother taught her, she would have to un-learn what her mother taught her.
Mothers/ parents have great power over their young children. This is where most learning takes place, in childhood and the teachers are the adults present, usually the parents.
“We are all from the same place… we shall be seeing each other”- you mean that your estranged wife is in South Sudan now, where you are, and living close by?
anitaMay 16, 2019 at 11:41 am #294145
Yes my estrange wife is also in south Sudan here. We are all in juba…. S. Sudan. Both of us are from the same state or province. The difference is ; she grows up in Khartoum, Sudan, and I grow up in Uganda and Kenya, plus South Africa as well as Poland. These are they countries I passed through when I was doing my piloting Training.
I am trying to work extra hard, to achieve my goal and get a better life and I think beautiful one , which is more than her will come automatically.
I have a lots of dreams to do. I think of my only love Son Agoth Gregory , most often.
Once again thanks Anita.
Gregory.May 16, 2019 at 2:04 pm #294167
I will be back to read your recent post and anything you may add to it when I am back to the computer in about 16 hours from now.
anitaMay 17, 2019 at 6:01 am #294231
Hope you are breathing well. I have digested all your input in my tough marriage and fortunately , I found myself back to senses.
I realized that as marriage row/normal role ; when a woman begins to cheats on her husband , then she is planning to divorce and wishing her husband to die, because she has got another man, she slept with.
If all the characters of the girls where shown on the TV SHOW , then people could have not married.May 17, 2019 at 6:35 am #294233
You live in Juba, South Sudan, but grew up in/ visited Uganda, Kenya, South Africa and Poland. Your estranged wife also lives in Juba, where you live. I like very much how you put your thoughts into words in your most recent post:
“when a woman begins to cheat on her husband, then she is planning to divorce and wishing her husband to die, because she has got another man, she slept with”-
– fascinating how you phrased it, when a woman cheats on her husband, she is planning to divorce him. It means she is responsible for the divorce she already made happen as she cheated on her husband.
“wishing her husband to die”- the woman who cheats on her loving and trusting husband creates such pain in him, such strong emotional hurt, that it is like death. When a person’s trust is betrayed, it is a sort of death, death of that trust. I have this image, a man holding on to his wife as a place of love and hope, hope of togetherness for life. Then she cheats on him, and he falls down because she is no longer there to hold on to.
But you are not falling down now, you have your son, Agoth Gregory who loves you, and you can trust his love for you because young children always love their parents. And you have your “goal and get a better life and I think a beautiful one”!
Your writing is like that golden dust in South Sudan mentioned before.
anitaMay 17, 2019 at 8:16 am #294243
Haha thanks for this beautiful message , how you frame your words is awesome and electrified the heart of the other person. You are superb genius Anita,
Yes, this woman had run out of short education. When she is happy maybe she is at the middle of her friends whom they are dancing with the loudest Music. Nothing makes her more comfortable with other than friends and music. She once told me she need a speaker to be in her house so that she can be dancing within.
Yes, Anita, all the point you had said are fact and truth. I am totally different from her, her way of thinking and ways of doing things is is perpendicular to angle of attacks in flying the airborne. I have had got various education in my signals and I was the one educating myself not even a uncle or relative. My brain took me to those places. My father is not educated , is just a farmer. And still k used to go back to look after my cattle because that is where my knowledge start. I have to work extra hard to over come her negative thinking that I will not progress a head if she is not in my life. I have to prove her wrong. I will achieve my target and my amazing goal of become a Captain in command (PIC) or call it Pilot in command , and my son Agoth Gregory, will be my first officer.
Hey Anita, wonders will never end, I got a surprise call today by my young brother in-law telling me they are in a dire situation, and the owner of the house need it by the end of this month. And her father said since you refused me to listen to me and stay with the husband that I had given to you and you listened to the advice of your mother ,, ,,, then handle your things alone….. I am not your father. Go to any boy friend you are targeting to pay the money the rent of new house.
My father in-laws is definitely standing with me.
What would I do to my younger brother in laws and uncle to my son. He is still in primary school.
Ayong, will never fit to my shoes and I guess she is assuming that she will get a man who will provide them everything. No one will ever makes a suicide to go for such a greedy woman, with her mother.
They all tried to look for a new house to rent, but in vain, ,,,,, they are all expensive.
Anita , oyeee.
You are my role model and my monitor as well as my guidance.