I am 9 months into a break up. A rather bad break up. An all of a sudden, I thought we were making progress but instead “I’m moving out” break up. A break up that left me financially and emotionally weak. A break up that brought forth feelings of abandonment, rejection and the constant question since the break up, “whats wrong with me?” For me, this was a break up like no other.

I have had break ups before, but this one, this one left me feeling broken. This one left me feeling unloveable. I started neglecting all that was good about me and my focus was to search for the bad. You hit it right on the mark when you mentioned still waiting for that day when the phone rings and it’s from him. That was me. I found myself waiting for those magical words “I am sorry, please forgive me, I made a mistake, can we try again?”

Thank you so very much your article/blog…..I needed it.

“This guy is here to heal you, to show you the path to freeing yourself from the old patterns”…..

This is the statement that has me changing gears and refocusing on me (in a positive manner). I know the relationship was a lesson. A hard lesson. But a necessary lesson. And that statement, solidified it…

Thank you….

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