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  • in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77379
    Patrick
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    Hi Anita,

    Thanks for your kind words it’s much appreciated on my end. And I say that from the bottom of my heart. I will find myself again, it’s just a matter of time I guess.

    in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77374
    Patrick
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    Hi Anita,

    You’re probably right. I have been feeling really vulnerable the past 4 months. I do feel like a lost a bit of myself in the process.

    in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77311
    Patrick
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    Hey Anita,

    I see what you’re saying. I still do have a lot of doubts right now about what life means & where I’m going. Also, I do have doubts about finding love again. I’ve just felt so alone over the past 4 months that I’m not sure where to start from again.

    in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77296
    Patrick
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    Hey Anita,

    It’s not that I didn’t like myself as a kid it was the problem of being extremely shy. Through high school I really found myself as a leader/someone that could make other smile. I like to joke around a lot. Seeing other people happy makes me happy. So I guess when I had to receive the news from her that I wasn’t making her happy I was completely crushed.

    I like to be the one people depend on for some reason.

    As far as the burden goes…she probably felt that I needed her too much, but it was only because I figured that she should reciprocate the same amount of love I was showing her, which she wasn’t.

    in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77292
    Patrick
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    Hi Anita,

    Thanks for the response. She had her friend pass away of cancer while we were dating & I was there at the funeral for her. I was the one who went to buy their whole family “Boston Bruins” t-shirts to wear because her friend had loved that hockey team. Whatever she needed while she was going through the tough times I was there at her disposal.

    As a kid I’ve always been really introverted, especially while growing up. But as I became a teenager I grew into a person I really liked & was really confident. I’m 24 now & am so lost as to where my life is headed now.

    I broke down at work because I was completely overwhelmed & constantly thinking of everything that has been going wrong in my life.

    The connection to her break downs was probably linked to an ex that she had that apparently didn’t treat her well. So I made it my mission to treat her the best I possibly could & to show her how a woman she properly be treated. Towards the end of the relationship she had said to me that she felt “completely numb” and that she doesn’t know if she was falling in love with me. I guess I saw past all her imperfections because I did love her.

    As far are those words go, she said them in a joking sort of manner, but I didn’t take them that way. I was completely shocked that someone would even joke about that sort of thing. I’m a pretty sensitive guy so I guess that’s what bothered me.

    As I said in the previous post I have started seeing an energy/spiritual healer through these really tough times & it seems to be helping.

    in reply to: Feeling Lost/Depressed After Breakup #77241
    Patrick
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    Hi Adam,

    Thanks for the advice. I guess I’m trying to hard to forget about everything. I just don’t know what to do at this point it’s very confusing. Those words she said to me we’re deeply damaging. Absolutely broke me. I just have no idea where my life is headed at this point & that kind of scares me.

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