Thank you for your inputs.

Moongal i wholeheartedly agree with you . Since my last post..we are still talking frequently and again its always him that initiates all the contacts.im currently travelling for the month (he doesnt know and doesnt need to know ) but he did come over to spend time with our pets the weekend before i left.i didnt reply to his last message for a few days and he freaked out , got worried because he didnt hear back :/

I dont see us working again unless changes are made and alot of hard work…oh and alot of growing up on his part 🙂