As weird as it may sound, I am going through what your boyfriend feels at the moment, at least I think. I can tell you that the problem I’m baving is a lack of self-confidence in my relationship, and I feel as though I simply cannot control it. last week I told my girlfriend that I didn’t know whether our relationship was going to work and explained that I’m going through some shit at the moment. I fucking hate myself for bringing my problems into our relationship because I love her, so I suspect you’re boyfriend feels the same – he doesn’t want to drag you down. Myself, im trying to fake it until I make it because I shouldn’t feel like this. In your situation, I would ask myself whether I’d want to carry on in the relationship and help him get over his lack of self-confidence, or whether you don’t have the strength to do that anymore. I think he still misses you but he’s taking a break so that he doesn’t overload u with his self-confidence issues.

I’m going through the same. I’m six months in with my girlfriend and I just can’t feel love anymore. It feels like there is a blockage when I think of her, as if I’m supposed to feel in love with her but for some reason I can’t. I felt sparks and butterflies before the relationship but now I don’t. I have no clue what’s going on and I know it’s something internal.

I know exactly how you feel. I’m 17 and I’m 6 months into a relationship with a girl. I don’t even know where to begin…

Before she became my girlfriend, we’d get along so well and I was head over heels in love with her however not long after we started going out I suddenly became really anxious and depressed, especially around her. I’ve lost the feeling of being “in love” for some reason but I just know I should be. I can also relate to you getting drunk because whenever I’m drunk I feel the feeling of being in love that I don’t feel when I’m sober. So Inky I’m not sure what you mean about “this has nothing got to with your boyfriend” because it clearly has and I know exactly how she feels. I’ve recently tried reading some Abraham hicks and meditiating but I just want to fix this problem as soon as possible because it has 100% got to do with my relationship and I don’t know why.